How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[uls]

pinagalitan ako ni chatgpt

haha

[ale828]

Why is my friend so unpopular here e she's every man's dream in terms of ugali. Mabait, maalaga, matiisin, understanding, patient. I'd say martyr pa nga. Ako nga parati niya pinapagalitan with how I am with men

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The reality is every single man wants someone who looks like an actress, a body of a supermodel, as rich as Elon Musk (exaggerating) and who has s*x like a p**n star.

Looking for love in a dating app is already a big problem since most of the guys there are only looking for one thing.

[dr. d]

kung mabait at may itsura bakit walang nanliligaw? baka may problema sa isip yan? or may putok? BO?

we had a college classmate like that. looks good, decent provenance, speaks fine and quite very decently, smells good, has good fashion sense...
"she's retirement age now, and still single."
we plain don't know.

[_Cathy_]

The reality is every single man wants someone who looks like an actress, a body of a supermodel, as rich as Elon Musk (exaggerating) and who has s*x like a p**n star. .

Yup but just like women, men should also have something to offer if they standards that high?

Personally, I don't want to marry way above my social class. My Lola told us early on to marry within (or a little above) our circle - not too low, not too high. I'm really confused kasi may nagsasabi na social status of a woman doesn't matter meron naman iba sabi it matters? I thought the most important is looks kaya it's common for men to marry down?

Looking for love in a dating app is already a big problem since most of the guys there are only looking for one thing.

That's what I thought too (and ALL of my older millennial male friends) Another reason pa the eligible ones don't need to look online?

I was shocked though when I saw 2 of my CLOSE friends that are definitely eligible in the app! One of them is the MOST eligible guy I know in my circle. I took a screenshot nga, asarin ko sana but then he'd say what am I doing there. My other friend was his batchmate in GS and he was also surprised the guy was there kasi PK yun sa school. I said jackpot makaka match ng friend ko and he said he's probably just there for hook ups so no LOL!

RE my friend, I talked to a guy friend who has been in dating apps for years and he said majority that are there may issues or flaws talaga. When you get to know them you'd know the reason why they are single daw LOL! Yung friend ko she has no issues or MAJOR flaw sa personality or psychology (admittedly like I do). She may look AVERAGE and has a boring personality but then bakit madaming pangit na masama ugali na may mga asawa? (cheaters, bums, multiple children from different partners). Hindi naman mataas standards ng friend ko,

Anyway, I feel bad for her kasi she keeps telling me friends lang sila ni married guy pero they talk DAILY until 3 am, I don't even get to chat with her that much anymore kasi busy sa 2 boys niya "close friends" na both may asawa. I warned her about this na.

we had a college classmate like that. looks good, decent provenance, speaks fine and quite very decently, smells good, has good fashion sense...
"she's retirement age now, and still single."
we plain don't know.

I know so many like that in their 30s

[_Cathy_]

Curious ako, ano kaya itsura nun lalake?


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napikon pala ako recently when she told me na true green looks babaero and not her type. Bigla nagbago ihip ng hangin e when True green and I were still new all praises siya and saying na nakaka inlove daw. I said that's good at hindi kami magaaway sa lalaki, we have different taste. Sa loob loob ko, mas type niya pala yung middle aged Dad bod with adult son na kausap mo daily until 3 am. Nangangati ako i kwento kay True green pero wag na. Dito ko na lang ikwento.

[_Cathy_]

Umiinit ulo ko sa love life ng friends ko I don't want to refuse their call naman and I want the best for them.

My Paulinian/He Huang friend is still talking DAILY to annulment guy since they met last month. They are FB friends na. Now they have s3x talk, not phone s3x but he's the only guy she was able to discuss that with. In their recent conversation my friend mentioned that she never got anything from her ex of 10 yrs on Valentine's so annulment guy asked what kind of chocolates she likes. When she said Hershey's almonds, the guy said he will give her on Feb 14. I told my friend na the guy is pursuing her na but she keeps saying they are just friends BUT they are acting like BF GF na chatting and talking DAILY until ungodly hours.

I told her I don't think she'll take it well if the guy disappears on her because he's the most consistent guy that's ever been in her life. She said all the hours they spent in 6 months is nowhere near the 10 yrs with her ex. Tapos regaluhan sa vday, malabong hindi siya mahulog if not already. She even told me IF ANNULLED na she would definitely get into a relationship with him! She keeps saying the guy doesn't like her and they are just friends and she'd accept it he finds another girl. Paputol ko ulo ko, iiyakan niya yan! If it were my wild friend, I wouldn't worry because she could have s3x WITHOUT attachment, but not my friend na so naive

I know PERSONALLY people that had annulment, kung gusto may paraan, kung ayaw may dahilan! Lalayo pa ko e kuya on his 2nd annulment na and it was processed as soon as naghiwalay. This guy has been hiwalay for over a decade and he hasn't filed it yet??? Saka if he's country manager, money should NOT be an issue. Assuming I tolerate her na mag BF ng married but separated, she wants kids e, so what will her children be killed by older conservatives? Also legally sobrang kawawa siya!

I messaged my lawyer friend puro laugh emojis

[_Cathy_]

Kailangan ba lawyer pa magsabi? Separated married men should be off limits din





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[uls]

it's so freaking predictable

[_Cathy_]

Mukhang player nga si guy. I'm afraid for my friend but she's in denial. She always says she won't fall e halos 24 hrs si annulment guy topic namin 😂 Tapos bothered siya na hindi natuloy 2nd meet up nila. Saka may s3x talk na tapos she says she doesn't like the guy?

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[uls]

wala na...

emotionally attached na yan

she never got this close to a guy her whole life

tapos sasabihin friends lang

haha utot