How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[shadow]

Saka cath. Stop this naive and gullible thing. No such thing, nakatira na mag isa sa condo, nag work, marunong pa sa dating app, independent na nga eh.

Yun mga totoo ng naive at gullible na kilala ko yun talagng walang independence at never pina work ng parents as in talagang princess ng family, meron pa rin yaya hnaggang ngayon at never makalabas mag isa, hatid sundo ng driver.

Yan friend mo engot lang talaga.

Saka ano yan mentorship-mentorship?
No such thing, ano yan kung fu master?
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[Miles_on]

The whole thing's plain as day.

Unfortunately, this person can't be helped.

Sinabi na ng lahat, paulit ulit, then after mo sabihan yung taong yun, babalik na naman at gagawan pa ng justification/rason ang gusto niyang gawin, eh di bahala siya.

Paikot-ikot lang ang usapan.

[uls]

Saka cath. Stop this naive and gullible thing. No such thing, nakatira na mag isa sa condo, nag work, marunong pa sa dating app, independent na nga eh.

Yun mga totoo ng naive at gullible na kilala ko yun talagng walang independence at never pina work ng parents as in talagang princess ng family, meron pa rin yaya hnaggang ngayon at never makalabas mag isa, hatid sundo ng driver.

Yan friend mo engot lang talaga.

yeah she definitely isn't sheltered

bakla nga magsalita eh

so ibig sabihin exposed siya sa masang pilipino (baka sa school, sa neighborhood, circle of friends...)

kung exposed ka sa masa you're supposed to be street smart

pero eto engot eh

[_Cathy_]

she's in tunnel vision mode.
she sees only that which she likes to see.

she might yet see the light, should she stumble at ma-bagok ang ulo.

I've been in that situation. I guess women have that tendency when in love

Saka cath. Stop this naive and gullible thing. No such thing, nakatira na mag isa sa condo, nag work, marunong pa sa dating app, independent na nga eh.

Yun mga totoo ng naive at gullible na kilala ko yun talagng walang independence at never pina work ng parents as in talagang princess ng family, meron pa rin yaya hnaggang ngayon at never makalabas mag isa, hatid sundo ng driver.

Yan friend mo engot lang talaga.

Saka ano yan mentorship-mentorship?
No such thing, ano yan kung fu master?
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Your definition of naive and gullible is what I would call as sheltered. I know people like that na never worked a day in their lives but are very cunning pa and far from naive and gullible.

Gullible yung madaling maloko like those people that fall for pyramid schemes or cults. Meron dyan mga professionals like doctors and lawyers that fall for those. Yung friend ko sa dami ng screenshots ko dito, hindi alam ang meaning ng make out at bases (first, second and third) at hindi alam when a guy is flirting

Mentor in a way na she tells me her every move when it comes to men and dating kasi she wants my opinion or what to do next. It worked naman diba kasi pinigilan ko siya sa "tambay sa condo/car" hahaha! Pero most of the time nagawa na niya bago niya ikwento sakin like yung mga sablay na reply niya sa mga guys. Funny kasi she made a new guy friend at work and almost 100% tugma kami ng sinasabi like she tends to "mother" men like example ire remind na mag simba. WTF diba? Tapos yan, men tend to neglect her kasi she's too eager (?)

The whole thing's plain as day.

Unfortunately, this person can't be helped.

Sinabi na ng lahat, paulit ulit, then after sabihan, babalik na naman at gagawan pa ng justification/rason ang gusto niyang gawin, eh di bahala siya.
Paikot-ikot lang ang usapan.

What's plain as day? That the guy is still married or he'll do a hit it and quit it?

UPDATE 1: Sumunod sakin to insist for his FB and ask him to accept her friend request. She's not happy about it because I made her make the first move and I said that it NOT making a first move. It's information she should have before meeting up. Now they are FB friends pero wala naman daw halos laman FB except photos of his son BUT she can see his friends list and they have one mutual friend. I told her that is NOT a guarantee na hindi siya lolokohin.

UPDATE 2: I think narindi na with me telling all negative stuff about the guy and my insisting that he is hiding something. She said I should treat True green right and focus on getting a job instead of spending my day making true green my punching bag when I am bored (exact words)

[_Cathy_]

I disagree na porque

Masa = Street smart
Sheltered = Engot

Dami rin kayang masa na engot (people of Raffy Tulfo) at madami din sheltered na street smart. I think it has to do with character/personality pa rin. Possible na two sheltered individuals like what shadow gave as an example na never worked, may yaya and driver all their lives pero (one or both) can still come out as madiskarte.

Wait a minute, yung nagsasabi ng ganyan e kayo nga lumaki kayo may pera e bakit madiskarte kayo? hahaha

[uls]

for this specific topic

at a young age nagliligawan na ang masang pilipino

pag exposed sa masa, girls learn to interact with boys in their early teens

by 20s matured na

pero itong engot mag-40 na wala pa kaalam-alam pagdating sa lalake

[Miles_on]

What's plain as day?

That that guy is up to no good.

I think narindi na with me telling all negative stuff about the guy and my insisting that he is hiding something. She said I should ... focus on getting a job instead of spending my day making true green my punching bag when I am bored

Good idea (Aside from the part I edited from the quotation )

You've done all that you could possibly do (na magagawa ng matinong tao). There's no point in trying to further dissuade someone determined to make a bad choice.

[_Cathy_]

Hindi nga ligawin kaya paano matuto with boys. She has only been with one guy her entire life and they were together for 10 years. I think it's not her looks naman kasi dami naman pangit na may asawa at anak.

BUT yung sister niya, single Mom pero may nagpakasal na BINATA. I literally told her that she should be asking her sister for advise, not me. She said malakas daw talaga appeal ng sister niya unlike her. Saka aminado siya na manang siya magdamit. Nung nagkita nga sila ni married guy sabi ko palitan niya suot niya. It's not that I want her na akitin yung guy but I go by what my Kuya told me na look good feel good hehehe. She said ayaw nga niya ma attract sa kanya, but I guess that didn't work because he still likes her.

That that guy is up to no good.

Good idea (Aside from the part I edited from the quotation )

You've done all that you could possibly do (na magagawa ng matinong tao). There's no point in trying to further dissuade someone determined to make a bad choice.

She's turning a blind eye talaga on all his red flags

[uls]

nang-remind magsimba bwahahaha

kung sabihin niya sa mga boys "hinay hinay lang sa red horse may pasok sa lunes" matutuwa pa sa kanya mga boys

mahina diskarte ni ate

[dr. d]

I've been in that situation. I guess women have that tendency when in love

)

it's an old saying, "love is blind."
but it's time we open our eyes, before it's too late.