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Some men do not view cheating as cheating. They just take the chance. Spur of the moment; NSA thing. Sometimes it's even allowed by the wife or at least accepted already due to various reasons.
Even the mistress do not feel or think of themselves as mistress. They don't even ask for anything in return.
The world is a weird place.
Anyway, I think it's just that everyone has a different idea of what cheating is. Is lunch with a co-worker already cheating? Yes to some. No to others. It escalates but where do you draw the line?
Men cheat coz of 2 things: they have controlling wife or the new girl is so understanding and malambing.
Why do wives become controlling? For one thing they are more idle. Idle is the devil's playground. Andun nayun kain sila ng kain sa kusina and then because they eat a lot, they become insecure then they imagine things about their husbands. So pag-uwi mo wala na, guilty ka na over something that you didnt do.
And you know what will do next? They will cook delicious food so that the men become fat too. And 3 years after, they're both fat. The husband has no more face value in pffice work, wife rejoices. And welcome to 80% of Filipino families.
Then a young girl comes along, maybe she came from poor bsckground or just a struggling office worker, she takes notice of the husband. husband suddenly feels alive again, and then the cheatinv starts.
Correct me if Im wrong, but I know most readers here will agree. Especially , those husbands who were once fit but now sobrang losyang o losyong and then you would ask yourself while drinking beer alone - why? Bakit na kami ganito, hindi na nga appealing, under maintenance pa with all the drugs for hypertension, stroke etc. all becusse of overeating coz of the possessive scheme of your insecure wives ...
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And this ladies snd gentlemen, is why Rome treated women unequally say in the catholic faith, in the bible and even in government. Even the Islamic world treats women this way because if men get too attached, then they cannot fulfill their purpose ..
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I am the omega who looks like an Alpha
Yes, pati guhit sa ilalim ng mata. I have learned to ignore those things as I do not aim to make anyone look inferiror
Though it feels good. I tend to put myself in their shoes, so many reasons why other men cant maintain a good body - maybe they have controlling wife lol
Pero alam ko naman talaga one reason coz they have kids. Most of time they eat their kids' leftovers so they have tendency to overeat. i respect that
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I am the omega who looks like an Alpha
I dont chest *cath. i also believe in mutual respect. There are so many temptations around especially if one is fit but part or being fit is discipline,
Discipline is holistic. if I say i will not be tempted by delicious food, then I should not be tempted also by delcious looking women. Kasi once you give in to that, then what's the point di'ba of developing that strong character. Being fit is never about good looks and great body, being fit is about balancing ones urges and indulgences,
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I am the omega who looks like an Alpha
Not necessarily. People (Men & Women) have affairs not just because of those 2 reasons. It can be just because of high testosterone levels.
I know a long term couple who both have the hots for each other. Both are successful at work and at home. They have 3 adorable kids. Both are physically fit. The man lifts while the woman does yoga.
But the man has side chicks. He just can't resist the game even in his mid-30s.
I know another successful office girl lady has a bf. She is not fit to the T but not looking bad either. The bf is quite a guy as well. Articulate and has budding career in high end restaurants. They both have good investments for their future already. Several condos, a sideline business and savings. Guess what? The girl has ONS or even NSAs here and there.
One can say that cheaters are weak to temptation or they simply can't settle down. Everyone has a reason and we can't simplify it to just a few things. As what Cathy said, it can't be generalized.![]()