your thoughts?

[the_wildthing]

Woah, mag-usap na lang kayo... part of your message seems to be directed at a specific person.

As to the lawyer question, lawsuits aren't something to lose sleep over. That's why there are lawyers. A criminal case might be different if you're guilty.

[wren]

my test to you : prove to me that the LOVE you are telling me is much more than the pain you've caused me...and it has to be immediately.

he had his biggest TEST when he had to choose between you and her.

[MXFX]

the best he can do is apologize for everything and move on.

ihateyouandme, just take it easy for now. spend time with family and friends, go out, etc. you have to take care of you right now.

[ihateyouandme]

this are good suggestions. don't worry guys i am all for your suggestions. I know it is a battle i lost already. Before people get wed in civil weddings they have to do some paperworks and my bf is fully aware of this. At 34 years old he knows what he is doing. I hope you are reading this today. You and I aren't fooling anyone. I can't fool myself thinking you love me. It will only lead you and me to lie more to each other.
I have forgiven you for sleeping with another woman already. It seems that you really want this marriage to happen. It seems unfair to me, to your woman (no matter how repugnant she may be today, but you will learn to like her...by the fact that you were able to sleep with her), and to your kid.
As again our agendas: let's set the record straight for both you and me. Let's have a closure if that is what we both need. Thank you.

[empy]

ummm....what's the guy's username?

[ts1n1ta]

same den thoughts ko with the others...forget him....of course this will happen only in time. I pray that you'd have strength to do this. You'd be doing yourself the favor if you keep your distance from him. I wish you all the best, girl.


Im just wondering...what could be the reason naman para ma dis-bar sha? Could the new wife's family do that??? Just because he knocked up their daughter?? Is that the only reason why he married the woman? ...

[nicolodeon]

...I hope you are reading this today. You and I aren't fooling anyone. I can't fool myself thinking you love me. It will only lead you and me to lie more to each other.
I have forgiven you for sleeping with another woman already. It seems that you really want this marriage to happen. It seems unfair to me, to your woman (no matter how repugnant she may be today, but you will learn to like her...by the fact that you were able to sleep with her), and to your kid.
As again our agendas: let's set the record straight for both you and me. Let's have a closure if that is what we both need. Thank you.

Ma'am, you're one classy lady.

I can relate with your story: same thing happened to me with my first serious girlfriend - she got pregnant. Worse, it was one of my college buddies that got her into that situation. We were both in our early 20's then but hey, she ain't a 12 year at that time so she knew what she was doing when they both took their clothes in his house.

I agree with you that at 34, a person should already know what he/she is doing (unless he/she is a total retard) - matanda na sya eh. Judging from your post, you're one strong and intelligent lady. I bet you'r pretty too. I'm sure you'd be able to find someone worthy of your time, your affection and of your love.

However, pardon me for my unsolicitied advice but don't hate him because I've seen a couple of persons who were in the same situation as you are in right now got eaten up by hatred. Just pray for him that he learns to dance to the music he created like a gentleman.

God bless you.

[IIE]

naku po, tama sila kalimutan mo na lang po. nakakalungkot yan ganyan bagay. but maging busy ka nalang sa work mo, find another person, date-date, etc... daanin mo na lang sa tawa, darating ang panahon at tatawanan mo na lang yan pag-may narinig kang ganitong situation, mangyari na rin yan before sakin, ang i dont know what to do. now, everything is smooth and peaceful. try mo.....

[NightRock]

True or not the guy has to face the responsibilities... Forget him dami pang guys dito sa Tsikot wag kana kukuha ng Lawyer ulit hahaha...Syempre sasabihin nya he loves you and he likes to be with you...(sino ba ayaw ng libreng lunch)....You have to move on malilimutan mo din yan..

[NightRock]

ummm....what's the guy's username?

PM nya sakin M54 Powered daw ang user name heheh