What a disastrous night...for my kids

**odell** · February 9th, 2005 01:35 AM

mana mana lang yan... kaya maging mabaet na habang bata.hehehe

**gearspeed** · February 9th, 2005 01:41 AM

yung kapitbahay namin na bata SOBRANG KULIT lalo na kapag yung kapitbahay namin naglilinis ng tsikot lalabas siya at kukulitin yung kapitbahay namin na nakacorolla..Isang araw hinahabol siya nung maid nila tapos bigla ba naman sumakay sa loob ng tsikot at sa driver seat pa talaga umupo at pinaggagalaw yung glove box at ayun nasira tapos hindi pa nakuntento pinagtatapak tapakan yung brake at ayun nasira rin...Tinulungan ko nga yung kapitbahay namin ayusin yung tsikot niya sabi nga niya "hindi ko expect na ganun ka kulit yung bata na yun ah"..Ang tagal namin bago naayos yung tsikot niya at ang hirap ayusin tinanggal pa talaga namin yung sa ilalim ng steering wheel para mawala yung pagilaw nung brakes at maayos ulit yung glovebox..

**cyberdoc95** · February 9th, 2005 08:06 AM

Ang masabi ko lang is, LET THEM BE KIDS! Sa mga makulit na bata, sometimes, kailangan lang din na i-distract mo sila from what they are doing and you start on something for them to be busy about. Short lang kasi ang attention span ng mga bata, so if they are doing something on their own, distract them to something non-destructive!!

I know that it sounds a little expensive, but if you can buy them toys that they truly love so that you can be sure that they are just busy doing things that are safe, then that is one thing out of your mind. Rather than they'll be tinkering with dangerous adult stuff that they shouldn't be touching. Toys would also help them focus on something. Although, kids tend to change flavors for toys, but that's just how they are. Remember that they can only be kids for the next 7-8 years, and then they'll start to harbor conciousness about their environment and they won't be kids any longer.

One last important thing: NEVER HIT YOUR KIDS FOR DOING SOMETHING! Whether you beleive it or not, trauma in childhood will create a long-lasting emotional scar for the rest of their lives that would be tragically irreparable. Hitting children was something that was heavily practiced by a generation previous to us and shouldn't be passed on to the next.

Boybi, I commend you for being cool with your kids!

**empy** · February 9th, 2005 08:21 AM

from the thread title, akala ko nahuli nila si mommy at si daddy na may ginagawang bad

**artpogi** · February 9th, 2005 08:22 AM

Sir Boybi,

Ingat lang po sa mga chemicals around the house, mabuti ini-spray lang eh kung nasinghot.

Yung mga patakbo-takbo okay lang yan, pero yung chemicals delikado po yan.

Kaya ingat lang po.

**gretzy** · February 9th, 2005 08:27 AM

dont let them eat chocolates and drink chocolate drinks pag gabi na para wag masyadong maging hyper.

**afrasay** · February 9th, 2005 08:29 AM

keep a video cam handy, you'll never know...

**ARB** · February 9th, 2005 08:31 AM

dont you love them more, the more they do things the more your love for them grows.

**afrasay** · February 9th, 2005 08:49 AM

...and then it's the other way around :D

**mazdamazda** · February 9th, 2005 09:00 AM

BOYBI, wait till they reach around 7 years old. then the real fun begins (at least from what I remember doing).

Originally Posted by cyberdoc95

One last important thing: NEVER HIT YOUR KIDS FOR DOING SOMETHING! Whether you beleive it or not, trauma in childhood will create a long-lasting emotional scar for the rest of their lives that would be tragically irreparable. Hitting children was something that was heavily practiced by a generation previous to us and shouldn't be passed on to the next.

OT: or is this the reason why kids are such spoiled brats nowadays?