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View Poll Results: If your GF/BF is in a deep coma...(for years)

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  • wait for him/her to wake up.

    3 30.00%
  • move on with your life (and maybe find another bf/gf).

    3 30.00%
  • Don't know.

    4 40.00%
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  1. Join Date
    Jun 2009
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    #11
    kung sa akin man mangyari ito, kahit ano pa sabihin ng iba...hinding hindi ko siya iiwanan...

  2. Join Date
    Sep 2006
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    #12
    If time is of the essence (i.e. you are already in your late 30's or early 40's), then you have to move on...

    But if your culture and beliefs tell you to stick it out, then wait.

    In such a situation, kung minsan, kahit na sabihin mo na mag hihintay ka or mag mo move on ka na, may mga factors na pwedeng mag influence sa mga decisions mo. Remember we are not the only beings on earth.

  3. Join Date
    Dec 2005
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    #13

    It's going to be a personal decision, but I guess you should talk with her loved ones, close friends and a priest before talking any action.....

    8303:dishwash:

  4. Join Date
    Aug 2003
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    #14
    Quote Originally Posted by Hailey View Post
    kung sa akin man mangyari ito, kahit ano pa sabihin ng iba...hinding hindi ko siya iiwanan...
    what if the role is reversed, would you want your partner to keep waiting for you kahit very slim lang ang chance for you to recover?

  5. Join Date
    Sep 2006
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    #15
    Parang yung palabas ni Mel Gibson 'Forever Young', kala niya hindi na magigising ang GF niya, nagpapreserve siya sa mga scientist na nagexperimento sa Cryogenics

  6. Join Date
    Jun 2009
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    #16
    Quote Originally Posted by roninblade View Post
    what if the role is reversed, would you want your partner to keep waiting for you kahit very slim lang ang chance for you to recover?
    sinagot ko lng ung question kung sa akin ngyari, iintayin ko tlga sya. ..pero maganda tanong mo, what if kung ako naman ang nasa comma. since wala kang diwa, at gigising ka na lang maybe after ilang years, tatanggapin ko kung magkaroon man ng iba ang partner mo. mas magiging masaya pako kapag naging masaya sya. masakit pero ganun ang buhay e. ang masama ay kung vegetative state ka lang at aware ka sa ngyayari..mas masakit. kung ganun man mas gusto ko syang lumaya kaysa makitang nagdurusa sya ng dahil sa akin....

  7. Join Date
    Oct 2002
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    #17
    I will move on with my life but will still be there for whatever support na kailangan ng brain dead GF or her family, her family should undestand that meron din akong sariling buhay and besides hinde pa naman kasal eh...

    kahit na engage pa kami...fiance, fiancee just a fancy words for BF/GF....

    as for the question kung ako yun brain dead. my GF has my blessings not to wait for me for her to move on with her life.

  8. Join Date
    Oct 2002
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    #18
    Quote Originally Posted by Hailey View Post
    sinagot ko lng ung question kung sa akin ngyari, iintayin ko tlga sya. ..pero maganda tanong mo, what if kung ako naman ang nasa comma. since wala kang diwa, at gigising ka na lang maybe after ilang years, tatanggapin ko kung magkaroon man ng iba ang partner mo. mas magiging masaya pako kapag naging masaya sya. masakit pero ganun ang buhay e. ang masama ay kung vegetative state ka lang at aware ka sa ngyayari..mas masakit. kung ganun man mas gusto ko syang lumaya kaysa makitang nagdurusa sya ng dahil sa akin....
    The hard part if you are the one in the coma, waking up many years later would feel like no time would have passed for you. It would be like waking up a day later even if its nearly a decade would have passed.

    Can you really accept that everyone have moved on in their lives except for you?

    Can you even imagine how everything would be different in that time? Developments in technology, politics, even your friends and family.

  9. Join Date
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    #19
    Quote Originally Posted by ghosthunter View Post
    The hard part if you are the one in the coma, waking up many years later would feel like no time would have passed for you. It would be like waking up a day later even if its nearly a decade would have passed.

    Can you really accept that everyone have moved on in their lives except for you?

    Can you even imagine how everything would be different in that time? Developments in technology, politics, even your friends and family.
    I guess you just have to accept that no matter how hard it is, the world will not stop from turning just bec you are in coma.

    question...somewhat related to comatose

    pag bakla ba nag karoon ng amnesia eh alam pa nila na bakla sila?

  10. Join Date
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    #20
    Quote Originally Posted by shadow View Post
    question...somewhat related to comatose

    pag bakla ba nag karoon ng amnesia eh alam pa nila na bakla sila?
    depends, partial or full amnesia.

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