How Do You Deal With Your Child's Yaya In Restaurants?

[Balikpinoy]

We treat our helpers as human beings. They eat what we eat, and come with us when we go out. Really simple, treat them as you would like to be treated yourself,


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[jick.cejoco]

Employers who treat their employees like property or slaves do not belong to this day and age. All men are treated equal in the eyes of the law. Everybody were born naked. There are no more royalty nor nobility on its sense. Even the prince of England serve in the military just like any tom, dick or harry


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[holdencaulfield]

tsaka kailangan talaga naka uniform???!!

yung esmi ko, gawi nila noon sa bahay nila, mga kasambahay naka-uniform.

so nung nagka-yaya anak ko, naka uniporme rin. bakit?

may mga yaya kami na galing probinsya na kung ano suot nila, yun na. wala ng ibang pag-aari kundi

tokong, t-shirt, tsinelas at........... silpon.

merong mga marungis at dugyot tingnan. yung mga damit nanlilimahid. pumayag naman sila sa uniporme kaya okay lang.

basta pag mag-aalaga ng bata, naka uniporme.

They will rarely complain same reason as why you don't complain to your bosses at work. Why don't they just speak and say what they want, you say? What if the CEO of your company invites you to watch an Opera (but you'd rather go see the latest movie) and then have a fancy dinner of grass and seaweeds (he's a vegetarian). Would you complain and speak out your mind?

ours is, we often give them money so they can have the food of their choice.

thinking that no food will be gone to waste and no complains might be made. i strongly tell them that i abhor and detest people who waste or leave food.

then after a while, i would see half eaten tilapia, adobo, kare-kare... etc.

tapos yung ibang kasama parehas din yung biniling ulam. sabi ko sana iba yung biniling ulam nung iba para iba-ibang ulam eh di masaya! at bakit parehas ng ulam tapos sabay sasayangin?

ang kaso, kesyo kinainan na daw ni ganito at wala kasi yung peborit kong sinaiing na isda o bbq?

eh put*ngina! ano sila swerte? ako nga, tira ng mag-ina ko yung nilalantakan ko dito sa bahay pag-uwi samantalang sila, bagong luto yung kinakain!

and these people will tell you that back in their place they would kill for a morsel.

lucky them if they have "toyo" or "bagoong" for viand rather than the usual "asin".

tapos ganito ang gagawin nila sa pagkain!

masarap pa yung kinakain ng aso ko saakin!

hindi lang sakin nangyari ito pati sa mga nakapaligid sakin.

kaya kung makakakita ako ng yaya na may epol at isang basong tubig, problema na nung yaya at nung nagpapasuweldo sa kaniya yun.

"at yung nakita niyo ng minsan huwag agad bigyan ng kahulugan.

dahil hindi niyo naman nakasama ang mga taong ito sa isang bubungan."

it rhymes diba?

break it down yaw!

[macsd]

That couple are a bitches, if they can't treat their staff humane they don't deserve to have one. We eat all together with our maids in one seating, whether in house or outside. What we eat is what they eat, they are even passed the menu for them to order what they want.

[macsd]

Ooops. Ingat kayo sa topic about yaya/kasambahay uniform. May thread dati rito, na ganyan, nag away-away, na lock yung thread.

Dami nagalit. There's nothing wrong daw w/ the uniform.

MADALI LANG YAN, HUBARAN NG UNIFORM SI YAYA PARA WALANG AWAY. Di kaya nag-away kasi hubad na nga si yaya?

[holdencaulfield]

Parenting means sacrifices! Is it so hard to skip the nights out or take turns with the spouse when going out with friends. It blows my mind why they have to take their BABY on a late night dinner in a non-family type restaurant??? .

dati nakakita ako ng beybi sa isang maingay na bar dito sa morato.

yung bayaw at sis ko nanood ng earth, wind and fire sa solaire. sinundo nila yung friend nilang couple.

nagulat sila isinama yung beybi. umalis daw yung yaya eh.

btt: ako mahal ko mga yaya namin.

sa sobrang pagmamahal ko sa kanila, naanakan ko ata yung ilan.

[viper2lt]

Our yayas eat what we eat. At home or in restaurants. My other relatives would give theirs money for jollibee. Kakahiya lang kasi minsan alam mo na sawa na sa jolibee.

[chua_riwap]

btt: ako mahal ko mga yaya namin.

sa sobrang pagmamahal ko sa kanila, naanakan ko ata yung ilan.

Baka lagi mong niyayaya si yaya......

[_Cathy_]

So how does it work when you have to eat in a fancy restaurant and you're not paying? (treat of a friend or relative)?

Do you still ask the yaya to join the table or have the yaya sit at another table?

Personally if it is a gathering na hindi kami kami lang, I would not take the yaya along. I as an employee could relate to what Walter said. I too would not refuse an invitation from my boss. But that does not necessarily mean I enjoy his or her company.

[_Qwerty_]

the one treating will know that the yaya is included.. so same table lang dapat.. yun ang opinyon ko..

another approach is to tell the one treating discretely na kasama mo yaya mo coz etc etc.. or text beforehand na kasama mo si yaya kasi.. etc etc..

pero the right way to do kung kakain sa fancy resto at may mag treat eh iwan ang anak sa bahay pati si yaya..

So how does it work when you have to eat in a fancy restaurant and you're not paying? (treat of a friend or relative)?

Do you still ask the yaya to join the table or have the yaya sit at another table?