I only have one son, and I love him to death, as in I can't imagine loving anybody/anything more right now...

For those who have more than one child. Here's my question.

How can you balance the affection you show to your children?

Everybody knows that a lot of parents either shows a different level of affection to the first born and the last-born, hence the issue of "middle child syndrome" came to life...

(Note, we're not expecting a second child, not anytime soon...)

Now I know there are parents who don't mind showing the discrepancies among siblings (boy, my father-in-law will kill me if he saw this hehe), yung talagang obvious sino favorite... But I'm sure most "modern" parents of this generation (meaning late 20s-mid 30s generation) tend to change their child-affection approach...

Feeling ko kasi, I can't seem to assure myself that I can give the same level affection to my next child (kung magkakaroon) than my Yokes right now (that's his nickname)... That's something I don't want to do, not being fair to the sibling just because di sya panganay.

Neither do you want to reduce your affection to the older one just because a younger sibling arrived...