Would you change yourself to someone you're not, for the one you love?

[Patti]

In short ,magpakatotoo ka,wag maging plasticbumili ka ng isda tapos aasahan mo lasang lechon baboy

Haha nagutom ako sa lechon pero seriously most people gustong baguhin yung partner nila tapos pag nafrustrate sila bigla na lang susuko..so sad

[cardict]

Haha nagutom ako sa lechon pero seriously most people gustong baguhin yung partner nila tapos pag nafrustrate sila bigla na lang susuko..so sad

And that's when people will ask where love had gone wrong

[Patti]

And that's when people will ask where love had gone wrong

yeah i agree..minsan kasi the other party is too proud to admit na mali sya..sasabihin pa na it's for your own good pero in reality gusto nya magfit ka sa picture ng ideal partner nya..acceptance is the key talaga for a lasting relationship and it goes hand in hand with trust and loyalty..

[badkuk]

It depends on what you plan to change i guess. If it's something like:

-- being a bit more tidy with your stuff,
-- putting your clothes in the hamper, not on the floor
-- stop watching too much ****(hopefully you can negotiate regular rounds of actual *** for this)


...the small stuff, then ok lang siguro, ikabubuti mo naman yan.


But if it's something deeper...

There's a scene in Neo Genesis Evangelion where the Shinji's friends were telling him how lucky he was for shacking up with Misato...to which he replied that Misato is actually a slob. His friends shot back, something to the effect that people only reveal their bad side to people they feel closest to, because they don't feel the need to pretend. It took a while but it made perfect sense to me

imho, come as you are. Hopefully your potential mate will accept you. Wala akong tiyaga makipagplastikan, especially with somebody who's supposed to be my better half ;)

[cardict]

It depends on what you plan to change i guess. If it's something like:

-- being a bit more tidy with your stuff,
-- putting your clothes in the hamper, not on the floor
-- stop watching too much ****(hopefully you can negotiate regular rounds of actual *** for this)


...the small stuff, then ok lang siguro, ikabubuti mo naman yan.


But if it's something deeper...

There's a scene in Neo Genesis Evangelion where the Shinji's friends were telling him how lucky he was for shacking up with Misato...to which he replied that Misato is actually a slob. His friends shot back, something to the effect that people only reveal their bad side to people they feel closest to, because they don't feel the need to pretend. It took a while but it made perfect sense to me

imho, come as you are. Hopefully your potential mate will accept you. Wala akong tiyaga makipagplastikan, especially with somebody who's supposed to be my better half ;)

So true that you just can bare all things for all the people to know,only to person/people so close to you

[_Cathy_]

^That's true. Very few people really know the real me.

BTT: Not anymore. I don't want to get close to anyone anymore in the future. Doing so only makes me vulnerable to getting hurt and I don't want any of that anymore.

I am used to being alone naman. I only hate the thought that I might not be able to experience the ultimate physical expression of love between couples.

[dnomyar]

Sad...then you have not lived at all...as the old saying goes "be true to thine own self"

[Patti]

^That's true. Very few people really know the real me.

BTT: Not anymore. I don't want to get close to anyone anymore in the future. Doing so only makes me vulnerable to getting hurt and I don't want any of that anymore.

I am used to being alone naman. I only hate the thought that I might not be able to experience the ultimate physical expression of love between couples.

are you sure?why are you so scared?hurt/pain only makes us stronger..experiences make us wiser..don't you think you're missing a lot because you're holding back? I used to be like you but not anymore..i tend to push people away when im scared..as a test na rin siguro if they're worth my time or not..or if they'll be there through thick and thin..narealize ko bakit ako magwoworry eh hindi pa nga nangyayari..instead na magenjoy ka ayun problemado ka so tendency affected din yung other party..

[rollyic]

^^^ correct!
that's part of life...sometimes you gain, sometimes you lose.
and the only way to know that is not to be scared.
you can't find your happiness if you limit your self.

[cardict]

are you sure?why are you so scared?hurt/pain only makes us stronger..experiences make us wiser..don't you think you're missing a lot because you're holding back? I used to be like you but not anymore..i tend to push people away when im scared..as a test na rin siguro if they're worth my time or not..or if they'll be there through thick and thin..narealize ko bakit ako magwoworry eh hindi pa nga nangyayari..instead na magenjoy ka ayun problemado ka so tendency affected din yung other party..

And add to that "NO MAN CAN STAND ALONE"