My Date's Dad Is Hitting On Me?

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Just tune those kind of people out. Less stress. Why should you care what she thinks? Don't let toxic people ruin your day.

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[Gumusut_Amige]

She basically said na the reason fit guys date me kasi:

1. Wala silang kaagaw/competition dahil undesirable ako dahil mataba ako
2. Gusto ng guys sila ang tinitignan so they would date me na mataba/unattractive so they get the attention

It's not even reading between the lines, she practically said it straight to my face She didn't mean to be rude but her words gave her away and she couldn't take it nack na kasi in person conversation. She tried to remedy it but it turned out worse when she said na, she's not saying I'm ugly, hindi lang ako head turner. WTF.

But then again, mali na argument niya because I consistently dated health conscious and fit guys (except for 2) even when I was NOT overweight. Kaya alam ko size 32 ang perfect waist kasi for some reason parati sila 32

How I wish na pwedeng pagtabihin ang pics ninyong 2 for ease of comparison.
parang wala kang description kasi na superlatives para sa friend mo except being a lawyer and fluent in Spanish.
For me bale she’s trying to cover up her insecurities by saying pangit si Rita Atayde.
tapos menopausal stage pa.
huwag mo na syang agawan ng kendi kasi huling biyahe na para sa kanya si SO.
daming babae talaga na nawawala sa poise pagdating sa lalake. the way she acts seems she’s not a lawyer anymore.

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[_Cathy_]

Your friend sounds threatened by you with regards to SO. She is probably the jealous type (good luck to the dude).

She is super jealous. Last month we had lunch and when ex SO called me to ask where the resto is, she quipped na bakit hindi siya ang tinawagan

BUT in their relationship, si Atty ang doormat. I swear. He treats her like sh1t. Atty rants to us a lot! Sometimes I feel guilty because ex SO is reliable with me and never asks me to do things for him, it's always the other way around. POST 817. I don't know why he isn't consistent with women. Ngayon galit sakin because he bought me a food I've been looking for, na expire na e hindi pa daw kami nagkikita LOL

She needed to mentally bring you down so she feels more confident with SO. Its not a simple moment of foot-in-mouth disease (being too frank) since she doubled down by asking even more questions.

I am hurt that she's my friend and she thinks of me so low (unattractive and undatable) My other friend thinks the same na sinadya niya yun She also said Atty thinks so highly of herself na she deserves more attention from men than I do because she's more intelligent, successful and sophisticated. But then, hindi siya talaga ligawin. Sorry but I'd rate her looks as 2 or 3/10. Tapos ang hilig pa sa guapo AND FIT. How's that na???

I've always been a friend to her e sinisiksik ko na nga si ex SO sa kanya, so much that the guy stopped talking to me.

So she decided to highlight the only flaw they're aware of.

Plastikan na lang I guess

You're such a nice guy talaga! Kapag ako naging 50 kg wala na siyang ipipintas sakin physically. Nagkalamat na talaga friendship namin because of that conversation.

... "sour grapes" ?

My guy friends said nga she seems so insecure

Just tune those kind of people out. Less stress. Why should you care what she thinks? Don't let toxic people ruin your day.

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I care because she's my friend and I didn't expect that from her at all

How I wish na pwedeng pagtabihin ang pics ninyong 2 for ease of comparison.
parang wala kang description kasi na superlatives para sa friend mo except being a lawyer and fluent in Spanish.
For me bale she’s trying to cover up her insecurities by saying pangit si Rita Atayde.
tapos menopausal stage pa.
huwag mo na syang agawan ng kendi kasi huling biyahe na para sa kanya si SO.
daming babae talaga na nawawala sa poise pagdating sa lalake. the way she acts seems she’s not a lawyer anymore.

Mas maganda naman specs niya sakin on paper kaya she feels she should get more dates siguro [emoji14]

That's what hurts me nga, ex SO has been pursuing me since the early 2000s and I always refused him. I only gave it a chance in 2018 because I was so heartbroken with crush but I broke it off kaagad and told him that I still loved crush and he should be with Atty. He didn't speak to me for 2 years. When he called me again he said to STOP na sa pagtulak ko with him kay Atty and why should our friendship stop me from dating him (pero di ko talaga siya nakikita sa BF material) Tapos gaganunin ako ni Atty?!?!

Nagulat din ako na she acted that way, I thought she'd be more mature.

I think my Paulinian friend is right here, sa PAMANTAYAN niya, but is that how men think?

[uls]

o ayan malinaw na bakit madami "intelligent, successful and sophisticated" na babae single?

it's all the in above post

a woman who thinks she deserves the most eligible men coz she's "intelligent, successful and sophisticated"

pero "2 or 3/10" ang looks

[uls]

supposedly educated, intelligent (older) women can be so delusional

overvalued ang self appraisal

they think intelligence, success, sophistication can make up for lack of physical attractiveness

that applies to men not women

guys can be average looking but intelligence, success, sophistication can make them more attractive

[_Cathy_]

I'm thinking if I was a bit harsh on my rating so I asked my friends that saw her photo to rate her. This isn't selective. Those are the people I confided with when she made me lait

I didn't even know how much Atty thought highly of herself until she voiced out her thoughts on why men date me. LOL. She can't believe ata na someone who isn't fluent in Spanish, not as educated, sophisticated and successful as her is getting dates, partida pa overweight na [emoji23] Maybe he should ask ex SO why [emoji35]

But then clue na yun mahilig sa guapo, fit and intelligent. She knows nga pati architect ng bahay nila SO. We would tease her that 1500 +/- sq m property near EDSA could be hers once they marry hahaha. It's only SO that gave her attention that made it sa standards niya kaya fixated siya. Ex SO was clear to me na he will never GF much more wife her up. That's the tragedy. He treats her like sh1t and she takes it. Kung ako, sa average na lang ako but treats me well.







This literally made me LOL



Si Xavier CRC guy. High 2 sorry I laughed



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[_Cathy_]

I don't know kung matatawa ako or maa asar. Ex SO said he likes me because I'm psycho. I guess that is better over boredom 😳

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[uls]

he's also psycho

bagay