My Date's Dad Is Hitting On Me?

[Juan Martinez]

You were the first to use the analogy.

You said that VAWC does not cover women who enjoy the violence, just as it is not rape if the victim had an orgasm.



You were the one who made the false dichotomy that pleasure cannot exist in rape, a statement that has been debunked by numerous medical texts.

But I will also go as far as saying that any court ruling that deems that rape is not rape because pleasure was derived from it, is obviously backwards in terms of understanding the very concept of rape.

Rape is not a matter of pleasure, it is a matter of consent. Argue what you will about the 1983 court ruling stating that it isn't rape if you orgasmed, what is legal is not always what is right. Even slavery was legal, after all.

Now, back to the rape case of Burgos. The man was acquitted not because Lilibeth derived pleasure from the *** - that alone isn't enough to nullify rape. The acquittal was based on the conflicting statements of the girl regarding the events that transpired, leading the court to doubt if it was indeed not consensual. Again, the key is consent, not pleasure.

Have a good night.

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no, you mischaracterized my post or misquoted me. i object.

this is my exact post:

"i got a PM from a member who querried if VAWC would apply to one who was on the receiving end of abuse but who seemed to like or welcome it.

my answer is no. it defeats the purpose. it is like prosecuting a kidnapper who kidnapped a kidnapped-me victim. not unlike a supposed rape victim who, on cross examination, admitted she reached orgasm."

there is no kidnapping if the kidnapped is willing to be kidnapped. there is no rape if the woman is willing. that's why i asked what is rape. our definition of rape is having ***ual intercourse with a woman against her will. so, obviously, if it's not against her will, it isn't rape.

did i make dichotomy between consent and pleasure? where? you are reading something in my post which isn't there. you should have asked clarification from me before you draw your conclusion.

goodnight.

[shadow]

What the hell is happening here!? Cathy Kasi layuan mo na yan lover mo. Nagaaway na tuloy Sila dito. [emoji854]


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[minicarph]

clearly, we are not on the same floor.
i respectfully sign out.

Gano kataas ka, kasi kumakalat yun big pne. Seriously, I'm terrified living in my condo now

[MR_BIG18]

What the hell is happening here!? Cathy Kasi layuan mo na yan lover mo. Nagaaway na tuloy Sila dito. [emoji854]



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no can do,........she likes the attention from them

[n_spinner06]

no can do,........she likes the attention from them

I agree. Maybe miss cathy can get here her attention fix here where there are obviously more well-meaning men than elsewhere.😊 at least genuine ang concern dito, unlike the 50y.o. guy or the officemate whose intentions aren't quite as clear cut.

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[uls]

anu ba yan napunta sa rape

anyway, hindi mawawala ung guy sa buhay ni Cathy

and ayaw din ni Cathy mawala ung guy

they have too much in common

pareho sila psycho hehe

pareho sila spoiled brat (imagine a 50 y.o. guy who still lives off his dad, who has never worked a day in his life)

oo Cathy at least may work ka pero yung income mo napupunta lang sa amazon (for a large part you're still living off your mom... free rent, free car... oo na you pay for gas)

sabi ko nga bagay kayo ni 50y.o. coz you both understand each other coz you both come from the same bubble world

[_Cathy_]

(imagine a 50 y.o. guy who still lives off his dad, who has never worked a day in his life)

sabi ko nga bagay kayo ni 50y.o. coz you both understand each other coz you both come from the same bubble world

And that is exactly why I will never fall in love with him. I would rather much be with a guy who came from a humble background and worked his way to success. Those are men that are resilient in life. I don't want to be with a guy who is just living off of his parents and waiting for his inheritance.

That is why I think my crush is so perfect because even if he does not need to work, he still made a success of himself, separate from his Dad. That's my ideal guy

Also, I don't want to be with a guy who lives in a bubble, what would happen to us if we encountered a problem. I admit that I can be weak at times, so I need a strong in control man, not a man who breaks down when problems come along.

[minicarph]

And that is exactly why I will never fall in love with him. I would rather much be with a guy who came from a humble background and worked his way to success. Those are men that are resilient in life. I don't want to be with a guy who is just living off of his parents and waiting for his inheritance.

That is why I think my crush is so perfect because even if he does not need to work, he still made a success of himself, separate from his Dad. That's my ideal guy

Also, I don't want to be with a guy who lives in a bubble, what would happen to us if we encountered a problem. I admit that I can be weak at times, so I need a strong in control man, not a man who breaks down when problems come along.

yun ideal guy mo may tendency tumaba later in life, kasi nagtarbaho sya may daddy issues. unlike yun mga easy go lucky, they know importance of physical power.

[_Cathy_]

yun ideal guy mo may tendency tumaba later in life, kasi nagtarbaho sya may daddy issues. unlike yun mga easy go lucky, they know importance of physical power.

No. He has nothing to prove. He is the most secure guy I know. No yabang at all, kahit may karapatan I just made his Dad as an example because his Dad is very successful and he could have just lived off of his Dad, but he did not. He has a successful career (so ***y) He is also tall and good looking

[vvti2.0]

No. He has nothing to prove. He is the most secure guy I know. No yabang at all, kahit may karapatan I just made his Dad as an example because his Dad is very successful and he could have just lived off of his Dad, but he did not. He has a successful career (so ***y) He is also tall and good looking

Di ka makakapag-asawa madam. Ang dami mo gusto.