My Date's Dad Is Hitting On Me?

[_Cathy_]

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I don't get it?

Classic psychological warfare for me. Abusive people will make you think you have low value. This makes them seem superior to you, hence worth pursuing. If he begins to like you it is a great achievement on your part because in your mind he is on a higher level, better than you. And you continuously take the abuse because, well, you think he is beyond your league.

That is probably why a lot of women prefer douchebags to gentlemen. Most can't help their preference for douchebags because in their minds, the gentlemen are considered "low value".

Maybe that's why I gave in to him already after all these years because when I hit 30 he kept on telling me that I am older, fatter and expired and that it will be hard to find eligible single men older than I am or my age. And that I should be happy he is still pursuing me. Minsan natatawa ako when we had a fight and he told me, why the heck he is still sticking with me when he has better options. Now I think this has an effect on my subconscious pala.

This guy just had to ruin my birthday week. I should not have seen him

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Wait, i didnt read this earlier. Baka pansit palabok bilao 10-12 people eto. You guys are so weird.


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those text messages could come from a mid 20s guy and many would still call that childish hehe. Cut him off completely, wag na mag respond at mind games yan.

[Altis6453]

Run the opposite direction, Ms. Cath.

Your happiness should not be with his prior consent or permission.

[_Cathy_]

why stay friends with this guy? obviously he's an A**hole

sa totoo lang, wala naman mahirap sa sitwasyon mo eh.

you're old and mature enough to know what to do with your guy friend.

actually, you dont need this thread na nga eh.

Yes he is an ahole. I know the rationale thing to do would be to cut the person off. But it's not that easy since I've known him for more than 10 years and has always been in my life.

Mahirap sakin to cut people I've known a long time because I don't have much family, wala ako kapatid, konti lang cousins ko and half of them are in the US, my best friends have migrated abroad.

This thread makes me feel better somehow, sometimes you just need people to hear you out and it's giving me the push to cut things off.

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sayang lang mga payo niyo kay Cathy na layuan yung 50 yr old friend niya

hindi niya lalayuan yan

like she said that guy is a constant in her life and the thing is wala ibang alternative guy si Cathy ngayon (well, except her ex) so sino pa ba pwede idate ni Cathy except that guy

no matter how manyak, immature, selfish that guy is, Cathy sees something in that guy so she's going to continue seeing that guy

point ko lang sayang lang mga payo niyo

Baka,- DAKIL....

Thank you bro,- second best advice for the day (after bro.shadow's on our fathers)....

Glad you're back!


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[n_spinner06]

Classic nga psych warfare. The way you are treated parang ang baba. Really eye-opening for me. Kala ko the wealthy and educated ones are different and may 'breeding'. Nagmumurahan din pala, english lang. Hahaha.

Imho, no redeeming qualities pwera sa mayaman. Treats you and others like sh*t physically and emotionally. Not husband material. Not bf material. Heck not even friend material! 50 y.o. tas ganun conversation niyo. May threats pa. Can't get his way without threats lol. Parang bata nagtantrums. Hahaha. And i cant see why you tolerate getting cussed at like that. Kala ko you were this strong corporate woman. Wrong picture?

Or baka nagrerebelde ka lang. You were treated and brought up so well at home you decided you want something 'different' kahit unconsciously...pero parang matanda ka na for that.

I say get your affirmation elsewhere. The men here in tsikot willingly provide you the attention without the extra headache albiet behind the screen lang. Choose your company. Imposibleng wala kang kakilala na matino/mature at nagtityaga ka jan.

Lahat tayo may topak. Di enough na dahilan yun na sinasakyan niya topak mo. Talo ka jan. Wala naman trophy yung 'upper hand'. Siya nothing to lose. Gurang na. Ikaw everything to lose. Youth mo. Happiness mo kahit corny. Baka pati dignity at self respect. The more time you waste with him e the less time you spend with better people. Not worth it imho.

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[_Cathy_]

those text messages could come from a mid 20s guy and many would still call that childish hehe. Cut him off completely, wag na mag respond at mind games yan.

Here is an example of how childish he can get. See how he degrades me physically. Prior to this we were talking on why some women don't like to breastfeed because it turns the nipples dark, then he goes into saying let me try it on you Since he is mocking my age, I also mocked him because our friend who he slept with is his age (50)



See how he says no one else will be interested in me because I am a psycho. I do admit I have psycho tendencies and really that is the reason why since my teens my relationships never really lasted a long time. Siya lang at yung ex ko of 5 yrs ang nakapagtiyaga sakin.

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sayang lang mga payo niyo kay Cathy na layuan yung 50 yr old friend niya

hindi niya lalayuan yan

like she said that guy is a constant in her life and the thing is wala ibang alternative guy si Cathy ngayon (well, except her ex) so sino pa ba pwede idate ni Cathy except that guy

no matter how manyak, immature, selfish that guy is, Cathy sees something in that guy so she's going to continue seeing that guy

point ko lang sayang lang mga payo niyo

group date nga natin si cathy para hindi na siya ma-sad haha!

sagot ko na isang bucket ng beer

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Pink ba talaga? [emoji23]
Sorry, sorry can't help it. Bakit nga pala alam niya? Nakita na niya?

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