How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[uls]

^^^

you always talk about cutting him off

di madali para kay he huang

it's not raining men sa buhay niya

that guy is the only one who asked her out, the only guy she sees regularly

parang siya may jowa na walang label

cutting him off is like breaking up

mahirap para sa kanya yun

[_Cathy_]

^^^

you always talk about cutting him off

di madali para kay he huang

it's not raining men sa buhay niya

that guy is the only one who asked her out, the only guy she sees regularly

parang siya may jowa na walang label

cutting him off is like breaking up

mahirap para sa kanya yun

I'm shocked she stuck around even after she asked him what's the score (since they've been massaging each other for months) and he dodged it. I told her kasi to set boundaries, that if he can't define, then no more massages and hanging out at the back of his car. What happened instead was he french kissed her since they won't be "touching" each other anymore. WTF talaga. Ano yun last hurrah? BUT they still continued with the meet up and hanging out sa car

I also told her I asked the car guys what they think about her situation. Nung una kasi she gave me permission to ask (kaya I made a thread about her dilemma) but now she told me do NOT post na daw. I said hindi niyo naman siya kilala pero she is ashamed of her situation PLUS meron na daw siya new boylet/match Binata, walang anak, own business and 38 yo. I don't know lang how long they will last

BTW MR ANNULMENT IS SUCH A BETA. Apparently, the wife has a kid na with another man and they are living as husband and wife. Hindi pa rin niya inasikaso annulment. Its been over a decade. WHAT IS WRONG WITH HIM? Kuya ko nga walang third party pero inasikaso agad annulment, also the legal and financial implications. Unless walang assets yung guy? If I were a guy I would annul that woman so fast, she wouldn't know what hit her.

2 things:

1. He is so irresponsible/passive so pinapabayaan lang niya married status niya without thinking of the consequences
2. He just wants to stayed married

Who would want a guy like that?

When I tried out Bumble, I matched with a guy who was obviously for a modest background, but he got an annulment FAST. He caught his wife cheating and did not want anything to do with her. He set a portion of his salary and saved up for it. Honestly, that guy has my RESPECT.

[misseksaherada]

Nasasayangan ako sa time ng friend mo Ms. Cathy.. Kung sumubok na lang sya ng sumubok, kahit mag fail sya baka meron pa din sana mas better na dumating.. Grabe, 2 years na..
Parang mas ok pa mag-flirt at mag-fail kaysa 2 years na alam naman nya walang patutunguhan.. [emoji28]
Pero sino ba naman ako para mag-comment.. Time naman nya yung nasasayang.. Ending naman siguro meron sya matutunan..
Sana makakita sya ng lalaking magpapahalaga sa kanya..

[_Cathy_]

Nasasayangan ako sa time ng friend mo Ms. Cathy.. Kung sumubok na lang sya ng sumubok, kahit mag fail sya baka meron pa din sana mas better na dumating.. Grabe, 2 years na..
Parang mas ok pa mag-flirt at mag-fail kaysa 2 years na alam naman nya walang patutunguhan.. [emoji28]
Pero sino ba naman ako para mag-comment.. Time naman nya yung nasasayang.. Ending naman siguro meron sya matutunan..
Sana makakita sya ng lalaking magpapahalaga sa kanya..

Naghahanap pa rin naman siya and still using the dating app while going out with Mr Annulment pero wala lang talaga siyang ibang matches

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[_Cathy_]

Sabi pala ni Engr may fault din si He Huang kasi she allowed the FIRST meet up to go that way (hang out sa car) Tama nga naman, kasi it showed the guy that she tolerates that treatment. Engr calls it "backseat fun" haha. Then all subsequent meet ups for a year puro backseat fun. Personally, I find it disrespectful na hindi man lang ako i lunch or dinner or ipakita sa tao

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[dr. d]

Sabi pala ni Engr may fault din si He Huang kasi she allowed the FIRST meet up to go that way (hang out sa car) Tama nga naman, kasi it showed the guy that she tolerates that treatment. Engr calls it "backseat fun" haha. Then all subsequent meet ups for a year puro backseat fun. Personally, I find it disrespectful na hindi man lang ako i lunch or dinner or ipakita sa tao

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personally,
i find it strange, that the first meet-up be limited to the inside of a car only.
i would probably have walked out of the meet-up, that first time, never to return.

[uls]

PLUS meron na daw siya new boylet/match Binata, walang anak, own business and 38 yo. I don't know lang how long they will last

haha ok let's see if this one will ask her out

[uls]

Sabi pala ni Engr may fault din si He Huang kasi she allowed the FIRST meet up to go that way (hang out sa car) Tama nga naman, kasi it showed the guy that she tolerates that treatment. Engr calls it "backseat fun" haha. Then all subsequent meet ups for a year puro backseat fun. Personally, I find it disrespectful na hindi man lang ako i lunch or dinner or ipakita sa tao

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kaya nga

diba sabi ko he huang has no standards that's why she doesn't get princess treatment

why would a man put more effort into her when she accepts almost zero effort

[uls]

January 14, 2024

haha wtf ang tipid





beggars can't be choosers





yes girls like you na sanay sa princess treatment / who expect princess treatment will be insulted pag ang date sa likod ng kotse

your friend has never experienced princess treatment that's why her bar is set so low

wala siya bar

ganito pag ang babae may standards

[_Cathy_]

personally,
i find it strange, that the first meet-up be limited to the inside of a car only.
i would probably have walked out of the meet-up, that first time, never to return.

doc, I was the one who told her to INSIST on a neutral place like Starbucks. Their first meet up was super late in the evening, past 11 pm. The guy wanted to just hang out at her condo or at his car nga. Buti nakinig naman. She was even willing to go undertime so they could meet earlier

kaya nga

diba sabi ko he huang has no standards that's why she doesn't get princess treatment

why would a man put more effort into her when she accepts almost zero effort

She set a precedent na kasi on the first meet up

Kwento ko lang uli yung face palm ko on their last meet up na the guy was telling her about his childhood and how his father treated him poorly. She cried then gave him a hug. I said NO NO NO. Why would she cry for him and initiate a hug. The guy wasn't even crying at his own story I thought she said mas gusto siya than mas gusto niya yun guy, but her actions contradict her words.

Hindi kaya na OA yun guy kaya he ghosted her?