How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[_Cathy_]

My friend definitely has no plans of getting into a relationship with this guy because he is married. ASSUMING that his annulment is in process (I highly doubt) Sakit pa din ng ulo yan dahil sa mata ng batas at Dios he is a married man. I know it too well! Hindi ako nagkulang sa warning.

She said she just wants to experience how it is to date because her first and only BF was also the first guy that courted her and they were together for a DECADE. He neglected her lang - never gave her flowers, chocolates or took her to a nice restaurant. They also did NOT talk or see each other regularly. I honestly don't know how she was able to tolerate that for a decade but my friend seems to have low self esteem. We are opposites kasi consistent na men think what they do is never enough for me

My friend admits to not being ligawin, I think that is established given that she's been in bumble for almost 3 years and this is the first guy that asked her for a meet up (married with one adult son)

Ang tapang ng friend mo Ms. Cathy.. Nakakatakot yan, iniisip ko kaagad paano kung serial killer or serial rapist.. first meeting hatinggabi tapos hindi pa sa public place.. Paano kung aswang pala o bampira o di kaya nagbebenta ng internal organs..
Hahahahahaha [emoji23] la lang..

I told her that too, na I will NEVER meet a guy whose full name and mobile number I don't even know and what if serial killer or rapist nga hehehe. Hindi ko napayuhan kasi she already agreed to meet up with the guy. I think she got too excited na a guy finally asked her out.

Oo Cathy, Opportunista sa seks yan, galawang manyakis talaga, hindi siya seryoso. Baka mamaya maging galawang magnanakaw pa kung hatinggabi ang tagpuan...

UPDATE: So the guy parked his car sa condo ng friend ko and they walked to a nearby Starbucks. Hindi naman siya minanyak. He only touched her arm once when they were crossing the road and then going home nag beso

My friend asked me if it's okay na nagpa beso siya and I said if it were me okay lang. It's like a more affectionate handshake IMO.

I think the guy likes her kasi she said na when the guy got home they continued chatting pa (I guess until they fell asleep). 2 am na sila nakauwi. I guess because that is the time Starbucks closes? She said nahuhuli niya nakatitig sa kanya.

BUT can someone answer WHY THEY ARE STILL CHATTING ON BUMBLE? The guy still did not ask for her mobile and she still does not know his full name or FB.

...while simultaneously chatting with other 3 female candidates...

They are BOTH still on Bumble so yeah

[_Qwerty_]

modus lang yan nung guy.. gusto lang maka score nyan.. baka nga ni hindi manager yan..

hindi binibigay number para walang huli.. delikado kasi pag bigla mag te text.. baka mabasa ni misis..

[_Cathy_]

modus lang yan nung guy.. gusto lang maka score nyan.. baka nga ni hindi manager yan..

hindi binibigay number para walang huli.. delikado kasi pag bigla mag te text.. baka mabasa ni misis..

Wala man lang effort to get a SIN card/burner phone LOL

You know what I fear? My friend is naive and innocent and I am not sure if she can handle "just dating" a married man. I have friends that are very experienced when it comes to men, not just s3xually but in general (relationships/dating) pero nasisira with older married men. These are young and attractive women with nice specs ha! Not the low self esteem type pero nahuhulog sa kumunoy lol. What more my friend? I hope her strong moral compass will keep her away from trouble.

I don't want her to think that I am being a negative nancy but if I were her, I would not even meet the guy. Yun pa lang same day meet up already shows that she is not a priority, kumbaga sa party, it's a pity invite.

[_Qwerty_]

eh baka naman gusto din nang friend mo yung ganon.. no attachment and s3x lang.. so kung mutual naman.. walang problema.. matatanda na sila..

Wala man lang effort to get a SIN card/burner phone LOL

You know what I fear? My friend is naive and innocent and I am not sure if she can handle "just dating" a married man. I have friends that are very experienced when it comes to men, not just s3xually but in general (relationships/dating) pero nasisira with older married men. These are young and attractive women with nice specs ha! Not the low self esteem type pero nahuhulog sa kumunoy lol. What more my friend? I hope her strong moral compass will keep her away from trouble.

I don't want her to think that I am being a negative nancy but if I were her, I would not even meet the guy. Yun pa lang same day meet up already shows that she is not a priority, kumbaga sa party, it's a pity invite.

[H1Tman]

Cath, you're already being negative. Just tell your friend to don't be stupid.

[uls]

virgin pa yata ung babae

38/39 yr old virgin

di naghahanap ng fubu yan

naghahanap ng totoong syota

[_Cathy_]

eh baka naman gusto din nang friend mo yung ganon.. no attachment and s3x lang.. so kung mutual naman.. walang problema.. matatanda na sila..

wala siya balak maging physical, she just wants to experience dating. In that aspect, talo si guy kasi siya gastos at effort but he won't be able to score or get anything in return, UNLESS, spending time with her is considered a return na

Technically, affair ba yun if they are just going out? Sakin kasi it's not an affair until it's physical (I know a lot will disagree) BUT if I told this story to my family (ultra conservative) they would think it is wrong for them to go out since he is still married. Yung Kuya ko kasi when his annulment was in process he had a GF and my family thought of her as kabit. He did marry her after the annulment was finalized pero markado pa rin siya LOL

[_Qwerty_]

kung may asawa yung guy.. yes cheating na yan..

bakit naman mag i invest yung lalaki kung wala sya makukuha in return..

wala siya balak maging physical, she just wants to experience dating. In that aspect, talo si guy kasi siya gastos at effort but he won't be able to score or get anything in return, UNLESS, spending time with her is considered a return na

Technically, affair ba yun if they are just going out? Sakin kasi it's not an affair until it's physical (I know a lot will disagree) BUT if I told this story to my family (ultra conservative) they would think it is wrong for them to go out since he is still married. Yung Kuya ko kasi when his annulment was in process he had a GF and my family thought of her as kabit. He did marry her after the annulment was finalized pero markado pa rin siya LOL

[uls]

ano kaya si true green makipag eyeball sa ibang babae from bumble/tinder

coffee lang naman

it's perfectly ok

not physical = not cheating

hehe

[uls]

not physical = not cheating daw

tanong ko sa mga lalake dito may asawa

ok lang ba sa misis niyo makipag eyeball kayo sa chatmate?

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payag kayo ang misis niyo makipag eyeball sa chatmate?

coffee lang naman

haha