Good luck with her! You can’t make someone like you or want you or love you.
Tell her to stop dreaming of the perfect guy. Just because someone is not from Ateneo or from a well-off family means he can’t be a great guy for your friend or anybody. Maybe that’s the reason that she’s single for a long time because she can’t see the bigger picture or she just closed her doors to any opportunity.
Huwag na sya mangarap mabuntis naturally kasi nga she seems to close her doors to guys. Kung baga, naiwan na sya ng panahon. Maybe she can find a sperm donor and just get impregnated by IVF.
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I mentioned several times in my post that my friend is a great woman precisely because she does NOT look into a guy's looks, education or family background. Yung BF nga niya failure to launch and working a blue collar job abroad. In terms of career and status langit at lupa sila but she stayed with him for 10 years. Kung si UF pa (and my other friends) tumitingin talaga sa education and family.
Also my friend does not like the guy only because he is Atenean and successful. She likes the guy because he is intelligent, ambitious and hard working. He came from poverty and was able to break that cycle. IIRC the guy does not even have his own car and house considering na he is 40 and has a well paying job and trained in many countries na. But I suppose it's because he is helping his family pa kaya last priority niya na yun. She wants a man that is better than her in terms of intellect and career, lahat naman halos ng babae ganyan.
I think it's cruel to say na wag na mangarap mabuntis friend ko. I have friends older than her that got pregnant naturally kaya nga hinahabol na niya ang oras. My friend is a kind person, I won't be this concerned if I didn't think she deserve it. Normally I don't care for the love life of my friends, a lot of us are still single, but my friend deserves to be happy. 10 yrs siya nagtiis sa guy that took her for granted. By the way my friend cared so much for this guy that she did not want to hurt his ego na she did not pursue a promotion sa company.
Ewan ko bakit vilified at natatawag pa na weirdo yung friend ko. Sa bagay, kasi online lang but if people here knew her personally maiintindihan niyo concern ko sa kanya. Napaka sweet and caring na babae, swerte magiging asawa niya talaga. She reminds me of UR pero siya yung rough version (bakla kasi magsalita). It's the little things she does that are so sweet nakaka inlove, yung ex niya ang weirdo for letting her go. Only fault I see in her e sobrang good girl e boring na siya. Ganyan din naman si UF pero naka pag asawa naman
Huwag mo na ibalik yun dati. Leave the past behind. Ngayon na pinag uusapan. Current she's a weirdo to everybody.
I still don't believe na she's a catch but for the sake of argument, she's probably once a upon a time a catch pero hinde na ngayon.
men will never take her seriously kung weirdo ng utak. Hinde pa na meet anak na sinasabi.
Weirdo next level.
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I am so frustrated that you guys cannot see that she is a catch. She's no UF when it comes to specs but her looks are average at the minimum, baka nga above pa by pinoy standards kasi maputi at big boobs. She's a decent woman, good education and career and most of all she has a GOOD HEART. It's her ugali that makes her mainly a catch. Dalaga siya hindi katulad ng mga dina date ni kags na ang daming panganay.
Mga babae ngayon puro shallow materialistic at naghahanap ng guapo (just look around social media) My friend is not like that, wala ngang standards based on her ex BF, si app guy he comes from humble beginnings but she still likes him dahil masipag at may ambition, rare na mga babae like my friend!
Yung guy ang nagb bring up ng anak, yung about anak usapan lang namin ng friend ko yun pero it's the guy who joked about it several times, kaya lalo na fall din friend ko kasi iniisip niya they are on the same page which is to start a family asap.
lahat ng post may pangontra si cathy
ayaw tanggapin may diperensya kaibigan niya
If she’s a good catch, why is she still
single? A great gal gets taken right away.
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