Do You Believe in Spanking Children?

[jeffvasquez28]

May mga kwento pa nung panahon ng lola ko yung binibitin ng patiwarik

Nangyari na to saken. Lol! Kaso nahulog yun sack habang nakasabit. Natakiot ang nanay ko kaya di na inulit ng tatay ko. Mejo may kakulitan din ako nung bata pero nung magkamalay na sa mga bagay bagay e good boy na.


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[_Cathy_]

Nangyari na to saken. Lol! Kaso nahulog yun sack habang nakasabit. Natakiot ang nanay ko kaya di na inulit ng tatay ko. Mejo may kakulitan din ako nung bata pero nung magkamalay na sa mga bagay bagay e good boy na.


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ha ha ha! Yung kuya ko naman hinabol ng sinturon, umakyat sa puno ng mangga. Yung mangga nasa view ng room ng parents ko kaya makikita ng Dad ko pag bumaba siya. Hahabulin siya ulit. He stayed in the tree until my Dad fell asleep and slept at the bodega. Natatawa ako pag naalala ko mga kalokohan nung bata. :bwahaha:

[testament11]

Spanking? For me, yees pero hindi yun spank na papatayin mo na sa gulpi. Kung tutuusin nga, mas nadidisiplina ang bata kung napapalo kahit paano.

[CVT]

May mga kwento pa nung panahon ng lola ko yung binibitin ng patiwarik

Okay pa rin iyan, kaysa naman "tingala'y nganga".... :hysterical:



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[_Cathy_]

Ano yang tingalay nganga?

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[CLAVEL3699]

pinatutulog ako nang nanay ko sa ilalim nang kama tapos silent treatment...

[niky]

Meh.

Speaking as one who was spanked, a lot, and as one who studied childhood development, psychology and developmental disorders, spanking can either work or not work.

Children don't know right from wrong. Spanking doesn't teach them what is right or what is wrong, and doesn't teach them why what they did was wrong. All it teaches them is that adults are ****ing scary.

Well, that's not true. Spanking teaches kids that it's okay to hit people who are weaker then they are. Kids who are spanked grow up into adults who spank.

What's funny is that kids who get spanked a lot are spanked a lot typically because their parents have a psychological profile that includes aggressive tendencies, poor frustration tolerance and poor social skills (hence, parents get fed up easily and spank a lot), so it's difficult to prove whether the spanking or the psychosocial disorder comes first.

I got spanked a lot. Didn't teach me anything. Spanking does nothing for ADD, because it doesn't address the root of the problem.

[robot.sonic]

Wala pa ako anak pero pinapalo ko yung pamangkin ko na sobrang walang disiplina.

Nag abroad both parents nila kaya iniwan sa amin for 3 months. Kailangan ko disiplinahin talaga.

For 1 month ata pinapalo ko sya. Pero after explaining kung ano ang mali nya. Di rin kaagad agad kasi baka mapalakas at masaktan ko talaga. Kung kalmado na ako, saka lang ako papalo.

Pagdating ng tatay nya, balik ulit ugali. Pero pag sa akin, talagang behave. Isang sabi lang sunod kaagad. Minsan nga di ko na kailangan magsalita. Titingnan ko lang sya. Na establish ko lang siguro na ako ang authority.

Pati pagkain ng gulay wala syang magawa. Pag sinabi na maligo sunod kaagad. Di rin naman sya takot sa akin.

Pero sana di kailangang umabot sa paluan. Dapat bata pa lang alam nya na kung sino authority. May mga non violent ways naman pero mukhang di na effective sa pamangkin ko.

Pinapalo din sya ng tatay nya. Mas malakas pa nga. Pero di talaga sya sinusunod.

[niky]

Those are signs, basically, that it isn't working.

All you've taught the kid is to be scared of you. Ergo... he behaves only because he's afraid of punishment.

Doesn't work for the father because his spanking is harder and possibly not as measured as yours. Ergo... the punishment doesn't feel connected to the crime, so he doesn't see why he's being punished.

Effective discipline makes a child behave wherever they are and whoever is with them One good example is Montessori training. It doesn't rely on reward and punishment, but rather structure... which makes children used to order, regulating their behavior without the use of physical violence.

[dr. d]

nope.
maong lang po (nang walang tao sa loob) ang pinapalo..