How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[_Cathy_]

yup i think so too

siguro di makatulog ung friend mo sa kaiisip

I told her from the start basta married AUTOPASS, it's a dangerous game to play! She said she only wants to experience dating and will NEVER consider Mr Married guy. Ngayon nalihis na ang plano. She likes him already and considering a relationship with him. The problem with my friend e martyr siya so I don't think mauuna siyang bumitaw sa guy.

Naive and desperate women mga nakukuha niya and most probably mga pangit.

Huwag ninyo over analyzed yun lalake. Norhibg special about him.

Konting attention, konting bola that's all he need to do sa mga binibiktima niyang mga babae.

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Yung 2 GFs parehong UPd grad. Yung 20 something first everything siya, the other his age. Both work for prestigious companies. Sabi ng friend ko mestiza daw si 20 something, the 2nd girl looks her age (40s) and average

I am very worried for my friend, deny deny pero mukhang nahulog na. She admits na he is the only guy that gave her that kind of attention (which for me is bare minimum), I asked her gusto ba niya i match ko si guy sa Bumble to test him, ayaw naman niya LOL. Hello hindi ko aagawin boylet niya hahaha. I guess she is scared to know the truth din that he might not be loyal to her

[_Cathy_]

oh my goodness, hindi na niya hinabahol ang anak. WOW! This guy's intentions for my friend better be real

My friend is so easy to please, chinachat lang daily, nilibre once sa starbucks at nabigyan ng isang chocolate nahulog na

Tapos she rejected yung kai shao ko sa cousin ko na BINATA, mid 30s (younger than her), tall and maputi, refined and well educated (not just saying this because cousin ko) Sole heir pa and gets the house of my Lola! Mas gusto niya yung 40+ married guy with major baggage.

[uls]

haha

the guy isn't gonna resurface and magtapat

he may resurface and act like nothing happened

weird naman kung ilan araw siya nawala tapos bigla lumitaw at nagtapat

so he spent several days examining his feelings?

haha di siya babae no?

men don't do that lalo players

[_Cathy_]

Nagparamdam na kahapon ng gabi. Friday and Saturday day lang nawala sobrang affected na friend ko. Pero still, what if in the weeks or months to come magtapat siya sa friend ko, say that he loves her or maging GF siya. Nahulog na sa kumonoy friend ko, she changed her mind about having kids na nga. Wtf. Kawawa siya if the guy does not marry her in the end. Kung dun sa 20 something whose virginity he got e that was not enough for him to get an annulment, what more for my friend?

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[uls]

oh my goodness, hindi na niya hinabahol ang anak. WOW! This guy's intentions for my friend better be real

My friend is so easy to please, chinachat lang daily, nilibre once sa starbucks at nabigyan ng isang chocolate nahulog na

Tapos she rejected yung kai shao ko sa cousin ko na BINATA, mid 30s (younger than her), tall and maputi, refined and well educated (not just saying this because cousin ko) Sole heir pa and gets the house of my Lola! Mas gusto niya yung 40+ married guy with major baggage.

sabi ko sayo dati pa it won't take much for her to fall

di siya ligawin

it's not everyday a guy gives her attention

it's not everyday a guy asks her out

sabi ko nga pag yan binigyan ng flowers on valentine's... wala na... hulog na yan

(ang mali lang sa prediction hindi flowers and hindi on valentine's binigay)

[uls]

Nagparamdam na kahapon ng gabi. Friday and Saturday day lang nawala sobrang affected na friend ko. Pero still, what if in the weeks or months to come magtapat siya sa friend ko, say that he loves her or maging GF siya. Nahulog na sa kumonoy friend ko, she changed her mind about having kids na nga. Wtf. Kawawa siya if the guy does not marry her in the end. Kung dun sa 20 something whose virginity he got e that was not enough for him to get an annulment, what more for my friend?

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i'm 100% sure the 2nd date had a huge effect on her

they walked and talked for 2 to 3 hours (tama ba?)

she said the guy made her feel pretty coz of the way he looked at her

kaya di ako naniniwala she can be so in control of her feelings that she can resist falling for him just coz di pa tapos ung annulment

come on that's bs coming from a woman who almost never gets asked out

she's gonna fall for any guy who shows interest in her

[uls]

Pero still, what if in the weeks or months to come magtapat siya sa friend ko, say that he loves her or maging GF siya

a guy who disappears and reappears after weeks or months isn't gonna make tapat

why would a guy do that?

sino babae maniniwala?

kunwari after your last date, the guy disappears for weeks or months, tapos bigla nagreappear and says he loves you, maniniwala ka ba?

hallooo

kung normal kang babae di ka ba magsasabi "kaya mo ako di kontakin nang ilan buwan tapos gusto mo maniwala ako may halaga ako sayo?! ulol!"

haha

pero kakaibang creature pala si He Huang

i'm sure she'll be so happy pag lumitaw uli ung guy

[dr. d]

a guy who disappears and reappears after weeks or months isn't gonna make tapat

why would a guy do that?

sino babae maniniwala?

why, the gullible, of course!
and isn't that what the guy wants?

[uls]

why, the gullible, of course!
and isn't that what the guy wants?

sabagay meron nga mga babae bigla naglaho ang syota

taon na wala communication pero pag tinanong mo kung may bf meron daw kasi wala daw formal breakup

hahaha

[_Cathy_]

sabi ko sayo dati pa it won't take much for her to fall

di siya ligawin

it's not everyday a guy gives her attention

it's not everyday a guy asks her out

sabi ko nga pag yan binigyan ng flowers on valentine's... wala na... hulog na yan

(ang mali lang sa prediction hindi flowers and hindi on valentine's binigay)

Yeah she's so easy to please. The way married guy treats her is just typical guy likes girl, it's not even extraordinary. She's lucky hindi siya nakaka encounter ng katulad ng brother ko that would give the stars and the moon for the "flavor of the month".

i'm 100% sure the 2nd date had a huge effect on her

they walked and talked for 2 to 3 hours (tama ba?)

she said the guy made her feel pretty coz of the way he looked at her

kaya di ako naniniwala she can be so in control of her feelings that she can resist falling for him just coz di pa tapos ung annulment

come on that's bs coming from a woman who almost never gets asked out

she's gonna fall for any guy who shows interest in her

Yup she said the way he looked at her she felt so pretty and she felt like the guy didn't want to go home pa (Can guys actually fake that?)

She's in her late 30s and she's only been out with 2 guys her ENTIRE LIFE (BF and married guy) May isa siya na inlove pero never met him, sa FB ata through a common friend, hindi naman talaga siya niligawan.

Sa bumble she can't seem to match with high value men (except for Atenean/grocery guyy) Mind blown talaga ako na in almost 3 yrs only ONE GUY asked her out. married pa May something talaga, I can't figure it out. Siguro may mga babae lang talaga hindi ligawin kasi sa office MADAMI na mas may histura siya pero may asawa/bf. Wala naman standards friend ko so I can't say na dahil pihikan siya kaya wala siyang boylet. She is definitely not psycho rin.

a guy who disappears and reappears after weeks or months isn't gonna make tapat

why would a guy do that?

sino babae maniniwala?

kunwari after your last date, the guy disappears for weeks or months, tapos bigla nagreappear and says he loves you, maniniwala ka ba?

hallooo

kung normal kang babae di ka ba magsasabi "kaya mo ako di kontakin nang ilan buwan tapos gusto mo maniwala ako may halaga ako sayo?! ulol!"

haha

pero kakaibang creature pala si He Huang

i'm sure she'll be so happy pag lumitaw uli ung guy

What I meant was, what if consistent pa rin si guy with the chatting and dates tapos nagsabi na gusto siya i GF? Paano na yun?

Ayoko na magbigay ng advice sa kanya on how she can have the upper hand on that guy, e di parang accomplice din ako pag naging kabit siya?