why are men so afraid...

**dory** · November 2nd, 2003 01:43 PM

of committment?

ka bad trip dba? since i know that most members here are guys, can you please shed me some light on this issue??

i mean, it's not all the time that you find a girl that would really love you... still, you take them for granted...

you say you love them.. but you can't commit.. anlabo naman nun diba?

whew... just ranting...

**sHoCkAbSoRbEr** · November 2nd, 2003 02:47 PM

Most men I know are simply a$$h0L3$. Don't take them seriously. Or better yet, wag mo na lang pansinin. I myself don't like commitment (read: don't like not afraid) because I know I haven't met a real one yet. Just let them pass your way but never ever believe in them. It's their nature anyway, a j3rk!

PEACE OUT.

**kiper** · November 2nd, 2003 04:47 PM

exempted ako jan.

ganyan talaga mga lalake..badtrip..!!

**explorer** · November 2nd, 2003 06:17 PM

ate dory, ayaw ba mag commit ni bosing mbt? baka naman mahina ka lang mag lambing sa kanya? :bwahaha: :bwahaha: :bwahaha:

at the age of 34, i'm still not ready for a lifetime commitment. seguro nga di ko pa nakita yung babae na makapag-iba ng pananaw ko sa buhay. men are only ready to commit when they are truly in love and ready to face a maried life.

**NightRock** · November 2nd, 2003 07:04 PM

How would you know that he is not ready to be commited?? Did you asked HIM?

What kind of commitment you need??? if its just a month or 2 for being steady I think its not enough time to know if the Guy is ready for commitment..

(look who's talking hehehehe)

**ghosthunter** · November 2nd, 2003 09:47 PM

sometimes they dont like the feeling of being in a commitment, like you can only see only one girl, etc. (what if he meets the girl of his dreams but he is commited na to another senario).

**gretzy** · November 2nd, 2003 09:59 PM

der r lots of destructions, so many girls, so many things that they wanna do, i think its better not to commit rather than leave the girl hanging after.

**pissword** · November 2nd, 2003 10:50 PM

uhhmm... i think what your saying is that kung ang hirap makahanap ng true love then why are we playing around ?? hehe

ay teka d ako kasali..why are they playing around??? isip bata eh..iisipin kaya nila lahat, iisipin MADAMI PA IBA DYAN.. tama nga un sabi ni sir explorer..

until a guy meets a gurl na makakapagiba ng pananaw nya sa buhay i dont think mag seseryoso ang guy

alam mo bakit??kasi matigas ulo ng guys...kelangan macatch mo tlaga ang attention para magrab mo din tlaga sya. but still after that kelangan magawa mo na sayo lang attention nya. if ndi then alam mo na... lingon dito lingon dun.

to sum it up...if u love the guy more than he loves you..lumayo ka na

sakit lang yan

**odell** · November 2nd, 2003 11:15 PM

Originally posted by sHoCkAbSoRbEr
Most men I know are simply a$$h0L3$. Don't take them seriously. Or better yet, wag mo na lang pansinin. I myself don't like commitment (read: don't like not afraid) because I know I haven't met a real one yet. Just let them pass your way but never ever believe in them. It's their nature anyway, a j3rk!

PEACE OUT.

:freak:

**dory** · November 2nd, 2003 11:32 PM

uhmm.. commit as in going steady lng ayaw na.. i'm not talking about marriage here.. bata pa ko..

he says se loves me raw.. pero ayaw raw nia ng responsibility, and nde p raw sha ready mag committ..

in fairness at least he's honest...

d ko lng talaga ma-gets kung ba't ganun.. mahal raw nia ako, pero d nia kaya mag committ? anlabo dba?

to sum it up...if u love the guy more than he loves you..lumayo ka na sakit lang yan

hafta agree with this one..