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[_Cathy_]

pero pansin ko pag sa mga filipino wedding, mostly mga gamit ng couple binibigay instead of cash or check. ung ibang couple nakalagay na din sa invitation if they prefer na cash/check.

Yes I also prefer to give gifts unless the couple specifies that they prefer cash. I don't agree with the current practice of specifying in the invite the request for cash talaga.

[Retz]

Yes I also prefer to give gifts unless the couple specifies that they prefer cash. I don't agree with the current practice of specifying in the invite the request for cash talaga.

do you find it unethical practice cat?

[CLAVEL3699]

Yes I also prefer to give gifts unless the couple specifies that they prefer cash. I don't agree with the current practice of specifying in the invite the request for cash talaga.

malalaman natin yan pag ikaw na ang ikinasal... Baka lagay mo lahat. hehehehe

[Retz]

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kailan na ba wedding day ni C4U?

[cast_no_shadow]

Yes I also prefer to give gifts unless the couple specifies that they prefer cash. I don't agree with the current practice of specifying in the invite the request for cash talaga.

not directly and sinabi naman in a mabulaklak na way

ako i find it more convenient sa guests and sa couples as well

for guests hindi na sila mamomroblema mag isip ng regalo, yes may bridal registry still i want to spare them the hassle na puntahan pa yun shop

for the couples mas convenient if you're getting cash as gift. mas flexible ka kung ano gagawin niyo sa cash.

pero don't put a specific minimum amount, that's crossing the border already.

[Retz]

naging wedding topic na. kapag sa wedding invitation, how many days or weeks before the wedding day dapat na distribute na ito?

[_Cathy_]

do you find it unethical practice cat?

I don't agree with it at all. Any mention of gifts is considered in bad taste.

malalaman natin yan pag ikaw na ang ikinasal... Baka lagay mo lahat. hehehehe

No I would never do that. I never mentioned gifts in any of my formal parties talaga. One thing I also noticed e nobody sends thank you notes anymore. Diba dati when you go to a wedding or a funeral you would receive a thank you note? Ngayon wala na.

[cast_no_shadow]

naging wedding topic na. kapag sa wedding invitation, how many days or weeks before the wedding day dapat na distribute na ito?

nung ako 45 days prior to the wedding day namigay na ako invites.

[_Cathy_]

naging wedding topic na. kapag sa wedding invitation, how many days or weeks before the wedding day dapat na distribute na ito?

Alam ko it's 2 months in advance and it has to be handed personally by the couple (or one of them). Because you need to give enough time for your guests to prepare for your special occasion and mark it in their calendar.

[Retz]

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ano ba 'ideal'? 2months? kasi sabi ng iba wag masyado matagal ung iba naman sabi 2-3 weeks before actual wedding day. mdyo iba2x ung nakukuha kong sagot.