A one-night stand is almost forgiveable.

But actually falling in love with someone else violates the very core of the contract of marriage.

If you actually want to be carefree and to love whoever you want to love, why the hell did you get married in the first place? Marriage is a pact of lasting mutual commitment, if you don't have that commitment, don't f***ing get married!

It's mind boggling how many people don't get that.