Bakit ka badtrip today?

[_Cathy_]

I do know a lot of childless couples. Off the top of my head I could name 6 agad. I probably know about a dozen. That used to be so rare before. Anyway we have different measures of success naman. I have a childless Tita and I think she is the most successful among her siblings. I am her daughter na lang

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[Retz]

I guess I am traditional and personally would have trouble respecting my husband if he only stays at home. If there is a huge opportunity cost for the wife if she quits her job , then both of them can work. I would understand the need for one parent to stay at home if they are based abroad. But here in the Philippines we have extended families and yayas to help with raising the children.

*vinj seems like houseband from katamaran kasi the 3 women I know with housebands e their husbands are into sidelines lang. Yung isa networking, yung isa buy and sell ng car, yung isa sales sales din.

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bakit nga pala ganyan sa filipino family extended? pati ung kapatid o minsan relatives ng napangasawa mo papakainin mo din.

[cast_no_shadow]

about raising a family ang topic natin ngayon.

kakatuwa din itong thread na ito, may theme na paiba iba.

[_Cathy_]

madami na akong nadinig na ganyan kesyo pagtamad ang asawa iiwanan kesyo aawayin.... pero hindi eh pinagtitiisan nila ang asawa nila dahil mahal nila eto at dahil sa mga bata.

wag muna magsalita nang tapos ha... cross the bridge if meron ngang bridge.

Kasi asawa na. No choice na e. But if I see red flags nga na tamad yung lalaki, ayoko na. I am attracted to guys that are dominant kasi.

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[vinj]

kung anak lang naman ang gusto, madali lang yan j/k


re: ayala guards. ganon nga sila. but i politely tell them not to slam the door. since same parking building naman ako everyday, alam na nung mga guard na maselan ako sa kotse hehe

Wahaha... I think yung isa, if by age 35 wala, maghahanap nalang siya ng sperm donor. :D

Yung guards dun sa office mo: "Ayan nanaman yung maarte... yung kapareho nung isang naka-123 plate"

I do know a lot of childless couples. Off the top of my head I could name 6 agad. I probably know about a dozen. That used to be so rare before. Anyway we have different measures of success naman. I have a childless Tita and I think she is the most successful among her siblings. I am her daughter na lang

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So far the childless couples I am close with are childless not out of choice. It pains me at times as some of them are very dear friends and i can almost read their thoughts and feel their emotions whenever we're together with other friends who have kids, and the topic of discussion shifts to the kids and stuff.

I was likewise treated as son by an aunt who had no kid (she's quite successful too)... she and her husband eventually adopted and they have two kids now. I guess that strikes me out of the mana list. :D

[CLAVEL3699]

Kasi asawa na. No choice na e. But if I see red flags nga na tamad yung lalaki, ayoko na. I am attracted to guys that are dominant kasi.

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cath yung bayaw ko noong binata sobrang sipag daw... sobrang responsable... pero nung nagkaanak sila biglang nagbago at noong nakikita na malaki kinikita nang hipag ko.

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prime example: Father ko... hindi nya inintindi kung sapat ba pera namin dahil kung kailan kami lumalaki at kailangan nang pera dun sya tinamad magtrabaho... totally quit sya ang dahilan nya madami na sya napundar dun na lang namin kunin ang pangangailangan namin.

At hindi yun sumasapat kaya napilitan nanay ko magtrabaho.

[uls]

Kasi asawa na. No choice na e. But if I see red flags nga na tamad yung lalaki, ayoko na. I am attracted to guys that are dominant kasi.

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meron naman "dominant" na walang trabaho

binubugbog ang misis hehe

[CLAVEL3699]

I was likewise treated as son by an aunt who had no kid (she's quite successful too)... she and her husband eventually adopted and they have two kids now. I guess that strikes me out of the mana list. :D

vinj... BADTRIP for the day ba???? hehehehe

[_Cathy_]

Wahaha... I think yung isa, if by age 35 wala, maghahanap nalang siya ng sperm donor. :D

Yung guards dun sa office mo: "Ayan nanaman yung maarte... yung kapareho nung isang naka-123 plate"



So far the childless couples I am close with are childless not out of choice. It pains me at times as some of them are very dear friends and i can almost read their thoughts and feel their emotions whenever we're together with other friends who have kids, and the topic of discussion shifts to the kids and stuff.

I was likewise treated as son by an aunt who had no kid (she's quite successful too)... she and her husband eventually adopted and they have two kids now. I guess that strikes me out of the mana list. :D

That is so desperate naman to have a child out of wedlock because of her fear. I do know a lot of women who had their first child in their 30s.

The childless couples I know e most married in their late 20s. I really cannot explain why dumadami ganun.

Sayang mana mo

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[_Cathy_]

bakit nga pala ganyan sa filipino family extended? pati ung kapatid o minsan relatives ng napangasawa mo papakainin mo din.

It has its pros and cons. Yung 85 yr old Lola ko up until now nagpapa aral pa ng GREAT grandchild.

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