My parents are like anybody else's. nakapag-pundar naman kahit konti and I can feel that they want me to do the same as well. I can't blame them bec yun ang naging buhay nila eh but I dont want to follow their footsteps. What I do is whenever there are artists/concerts here from their time, automatic I buy them tickets. Pag walang concert, either watching a movie or a hotel buffet. at times, I treat them sa mga discounted local hotels w/ buffets. My future plans are international travel.

What we have is a generation gap. parents trying to enforce authority that if we dont work like them, we will fail or we will be kawawa. What i do i remove that paranoia by making them experience the 21st century.

As sons and daughters, what we should do is improve/continue what they have started, not start from scratch (as they wished) If they worked hard all their lives and stayed at home saving endlessly for the future, then it's just fair to remove all those worries/fears that they have accumulated all their lives. They worry about our future but what really is the future? Can anybody control or predict what's really in store for each and everyone of us ?

Basta ito lang ang iniisip ko, I owe it to them that I am what I am today. i have a car, i have savings and i am educated. What I do with what i earn now is my own decision. so if I spend it in fun / non-traditional / new generation stuff then that is my every right to do so. just share the kind of life you have now with your parents para naman maging updated sila sa generation natin.

I think I find it more selfish na mag-pundar tayo ng sarili natin house, car, savings and then after experiencing this we become proud of ourselves and forget them. That's the trap with the traditional setup kase eh. And that is why we see so many broken-hearted parents even if their sons/daughters did well in careers/life.