I always tell my BF then that I must be his most low maintenance GF. I don't even demand for my BF (then) to visit me all the time. We saw each other only once a week and he does not hear a word from me when he misses a week. As long as we talk on the phone every night I am happy na. What made me sad e he is really not the "knight in shining armour" type of guy. In the 5 years we were together and instances when my car stalled, I knew I couldn't count on him na puntahan ako. It's always my family or friends that I call for help. Otherwise, he is a very good guy.
paano kung sobra demanding naman sa oras sa telepono?
kailangan buong araw magkausap
di ba high maintenance yun?
I know some BFs na hatid sundo mga GF nila araw araw. I will never ask for that and even if my BF offered hindi ako papayag kasi gusto ko hawak ko oras ko. It would be nice once in a while. My most recent ex NEVER did that for me. I drive myself talaga. If I don't have transportation my family arranges that for me. I do not like to burden my BF with those things kasi gusto ko magkusa siya but he's not the type lang talaga.
come onAdmittedly SOBRA hilig ko mag phone. Naisip ko kasi mas hassle sa BF ko na puntahan ako kaya phone na lang![]()
it's not coz ayaw ma-hassle mo yung lalake
if you wanted the guy to go to you you would have demanded it even if the guy is busy or 2 hours away
you'd rather talk on the phone than go out with a guy
it's inconvenient for you to go out with a guy
coz preparation alone takes a lot of time
Last edited by uls; April 29th, 2013 at 11:37 AM.
Indeed it does! I rarely go out after office, I like weekend. It it's after office I am already tired, uuwi pa ko, ligo ulit etc etc then drive back to the venue.
Girls have to reciprocate the date somehow, so I run out of ideas. Normally I cook something for my BF or bring him something that I know he likes. Girls can't always be on the receiving end when on a date, it has to be reciprocated in a subtle way. That takes effort too.
maybe that's why he gave up on youOriginally Posted by Penny_Lane
I always tell my BF then that I must be his most low maintenance GF.
you're too low maintenance hehe
When my ex comes to visit siyempre he can't stay late, he'll get bad shot. Unlike when we talk on the phone pwede hanggang madaling araw kasi I am in my room naman and people at home would not now. It's a good thing I don't live with my Lola because she has a "no phone calls after 9 pm" rule![]()