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[_Cathy_]

I don't know how to feel about these guys from my teens and 20s that are flirting with me. I don't usually assume but the most recent outright said that he still has a crush on me. We never dated, but he was someone I could count on back then (very helpful and reliable) I last saw him in the early 2000s I said, you won't be saying that anymore when you see me now

What's funny is this guy is less than a year married and I called him out on that. He said his wife is always stressed and unromantic. We've always been in touch like chat maybe a few times a year? I thought things would change once he got married but no

I decided to meet this friend of mine when he went here on vacation recently. I haven't seen him in almost 20 yrs since he moved to the US. Anyway, I thought his feelings would change AFTER he sees me since I've gotten older and unattractive (compared to peak age na teens to early 20s). I was wrong. He told me today na he showed OUR photo sa workmates niya. It's a bit awkward since he is married I can't imagine how and why he showed it? I do have close guy friends that are married and we go out one on one but they definitely don't like me.

[boybi]

I decided to meet this friend of mine when he went here on vacation recently. I haven't seen him in almost 20 yrs since he moved to the US. Anyway, I thought his feelings would change AFTER he sees me since I've gotten older and unattractive (compared to peak age na teens to early 20s). I was wrong. He told me today na he showed OUR photo sa workmates niya. It's a bit awkward since he is married I can't imagine how and why he showed it? I do have close guy friends that are married and we go out one on one but they definitely don't like me.

Let us be the judge, show us your before and present pic.

[_Cathy_]

Let us be the judge, show us your before and present pic.

"blinded by love" lang talaga siya hahaha. Sobrang layo na ng after sa before I don't like having mg photo taken kasi when I look at current photos, I don't recognize myself anymore. I think that's why I really enjoyed his company din because he made me feel like we were teens again.

[boybi]

As I've said, let us be the judge.

[uls]

re post ni cathy

kunwari may crush ang guy noong HS/college

popular ung girl pero the guy is just ordinary

he's just an admirer... so bale wala ung guy

then 20 yrs later the guy finally gets to talk to his crush

although hindi na kasing ganda ung girl as before, the guy still sees the girl kung ano siya 20 yrs ago

i think that's the pyschology behind it

[boybi]

re post ni cathy

kunwari may crush ang guy noong HS/college

popular ung girl pero the guy is just ordinary

he's just an admirer... so bale wala ung guy

then 20 yrs later the guy finally gets to talk to his crush

although hindi na kasing ganda ung girl as before, the guy still sees the girl kung ano siya 20 yrs ago

i think that's the pyschology behind it

On the contrary, may mga nakakausap ako: "buti nalang hindi ko niligawan / tinuloy panliligaw / hindi naging kami" after seeing their HS crush now.

[uls]

On the contrary, may mga nakakausap ako: "buti nalang hindi ko niligawan / tinuloy panliligaw / hindi naging kami" after seeing their HS crush now.

that's true

-

baka itong guy friend ni cathy sobrang dream girl niya si cathy ever since

so after 20 yrs finally naka-date niya si cathy

dream come true para sa guy

maybe he's on the autism spectrum hehe

i mean normally guys move on

kakaiba ung hindi naka move on after 20 yrs

[_Cathy_]

As I've said, let us be the judge.

panget ako

although hindi na kasing ganda ung girl as before, the guy still sees the girl kung ano siya 20 yrs ago

i think that's the pyschology behind it

What's funny, he isn't the first guy na ganyan sakin. Pero siya yung pinaka parati binabalik yung past.

It makes me wonder nga kung stuck ba kayo guys sa looks ng girl when you FIRST saw her?

On the contrary, may mga nakakausap ako: "buti nalang hindi ko niligawan / tinuloy panliligaw / hindi naging kami" after seeing their HS crush now.

Hindi naman siguro lahat naka asawa ng mala Alice Dixon na just as attractive or better than their teens? Also, it shows na looks lang talaga nagustuhan nila

Yung friend ko, he always says na I am sweet kasi. I guess if there's one positive trait about me, people say that I am sweet/thoughtful/malambing. Minsan tuloy na mimisinterpret ng iba but it's natural for me.

that's true

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baka itong guy friend ni cathy sobrang dream girl niya si cathy ever since

so after 20 yrs finally naka-date niya si cathy

dream come true para sa guy

maybe he's on the autism spectrum hehe

i mean normally guys move on

kakaiba ung hindi naka move on after 20 yrs

I thought that was normal? Diba the heart doesn't age naman? Ang dami story na yung mga first love na nag reunite? Saka diba kaya dami naging affairs since social media kasi old flames reconnecting? Honestly yung TOTGA ko in college until now napapanaginipan ko pa

Ang weird lang sa friend ko yung paulit ulit niya binabalikan yung when he first saw me and details na limot ko na naalala pa niya

[uls]

sa example ni boybi -- crush lang or niligawan lang pero hindi naging magkarelasyon

tapos nakita ung itsura 20 years later "buti nalang di naging kami"

kasi wala pinagsamahan in the first place

there are no fond memories, nothing to reminisce

[Walter]

Guy just needs to tick a box ... some sort of bucket list ... get in bed with HS crushes ... doesn't matter what they look like ...