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  1. Join Date
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    Quote Originally Posted by dr. d View Post
    the cultural taboos are being weathered down.

    in my time, the term used was mi-ni- "mission" yung guy.
    we have to use veiled statements of course. these pc folks will "self victimize" LOL

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    I don't know how to feel about these guys from my teens and 20s that are flirting with me. I don't usually assume but the most recent outright said that he still has a crush on me. We never dated, but he was someone I could count on back then (very helpful and reliable) I last saw him in the early 2000s I said, you won't be saying that anymore when you see me now

    What's funny is this guy is less than a year married and I called him out on that. He said his wife is always stressed and unromantic. We've always been in touch like chat maybe a few times a year? I thought things would change once he got married but no

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    I don't know how to feel about these guys from my teens and 20s that are flirting with me. I don't usually assume but the most recent outright said that he still has a crush on me. We never dated, but he was someone I could count on back then (very helpful and reliable) I last saw him in the early 2000s I said, you won't be saying that anymore when you see me now

    What's funny is this guy is less than a year married and I called him out on that. He said his wife is always stressed and unromantic. We've always been in touch like chat maybe a few times a year? I thought things would change once he got married but no
    I decided to meet this friend of mine when he went here on vacation recently. I haven't seen him in almost 20 yrs since he moved to the US. Anyway, I thought his feelings would change AFTER he sees me since I've gotten older and unattractive (compared to peak age na teens to early 20s). I was wrong. He told me today na he showed OUR photo sa workmates niya. It's a bit awkward since he is married I can't imagine how and why he showed it? I do have close guy friends that are married and we go out one on one but they definitely don't like me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    I decided to meet this friend of mine when he went here on vacation recently. I haven't seen him in almost 20 yrs since he moved to the US. Anyway, I thought his feelings would change AFTER he sees me since I've gotten older and unattractive (compared to peak age na teens to early 20s). I was wrong. He told me today na he showed OUR photo sa workmates niya. It's a bit awkward since he is married I can't imagine how and why he showed it? I do have close guy friends that are married and we go out one on one but they definitely don't like me.
    Let us be the judge, show us your before and present pic.
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    Quote Originally Posted by boybi View Post
    Let us be the judge, show us your before and present pic.
    "blinded by love" lang talaga siya hahaha. Sobrang layo na ng after sa before I don't like having mg photo taken kasi when I look at current photos, I don't recognize myself anymore. I think that's why I really enjoyed his company din because he made me feel like we were teens again.

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    As I've said, let us be the judge.
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    re post ni cathy

    kunwari may crush ang guy noong HS/college

    popular ung girl pero the guy is just ordinary

    he's just an admirer... so bale wala ung guy

    then 20 yrs later the guy finally gets to talk to his crush

    although hindi na kasing ganda ung girl as before, the guy still sees the girl kung ano siya 20 yrs ago

    i think that's the pyschology behind it
    Last edited by uls; September 25th, 2023 at 04:02 PM.

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