Marrying a Single Mom

[x.mayor]

Of course dr your field is an exception. Winner ang non doctor that gets to marry a doctor [emoji23] Halos lahat ng doctors that I know e doctor rin ang asawa.

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in my circle naman, madami akong kilalang ahente na doctor ang naging asawa. [emoji23]

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[dr. d]

in my circle naman, madami akong kilalang ahente na doctor ang naging asawa. [emoji23]

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tekateka...
"madam! derma products ka... bat ka madalas mag-cover sa surgery office?"
heh heh.

[ray_noel]

Depende sa nagpa study iyan bro....[emoji6][emoji8][emoji23]



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Believe me bruh.... pang mayaman ang specs ni ULs...


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[_Cathy_]

in pinoy society, kahit tambay nakaka asawa

kahit kariton lang ang bahay may asawa diba?

nakakita ka na ba ng pamilya nakatira sa kariton?

my point is the bar is set pretty low for a pinoy man to get a partner

so there's no pressure to strive unlike in other asian cultures

kaya madami underachiever

Yup at very common talaga na ang babae ang breadwinner. May ibang lalaki nga na proud pa sila na sila pagka gastusan. This is appalling for me dahil isa sa biggest issue sa family namin when my Mom refused to be a housewife and my paternal Lola got mad at her kasi she does not want people thinking that my Dad can't afford to have a family. Basta ang arrangement it's my Dad's money that will run the household.

getting married is like drugs and alcohol.
to some folks, they see it as a solution.
to others, it is a hindrance to their objectives in life.

I will NEVER get the career over marriage. True love is hard to find kaya! I've always dreamed of being a housewife but now that changed already - and I was in my late 30s when I realized that. Naisip ko God really has plans. When you have a job that you love, you look forward to it. It gives happiness and fulfillment. I miss my job na nga

See ms cath... mga guys na nagsabi nyan sa reply nila...


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Kaya malaki chances na magkaka single si girl...


Meron din mga magagandang babae nagsasabi, “don’t be choosy if you’re not yummy!” I think they address it to all the guys but i think it’s applicable din sa mga gurls...

I had this one officemate, not pretty and not attractive, when she had her assignment sa U.K, dun lang naka kita ng guy at asawa na agad sila...

Siguro yung mga 3 CPA needs to visit outside Philippines, where they are being considered rare sa ibang bansa... [emoji3577][emoji3577][emoji3577]


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Yung BFF ko expat sa Europe for almost 18 months, everyone thought dun na siya magkaka first BF (she is 36 or 37 na ata). Sinabihan ko rin siya na WINNER siya pag naka kuha siya ng BF sa headquarters namin dahil puro caucasian dun and majority have education in Europe plus US and they are paid really well (STABILITY) Umuwi pa rin na single. Saka ano naman akala mo sa mga kaibigan ko? Mukhang exotic?!?!

Uhm... meron naman di edukado na businessman...

Sa amin, madami hindi nakapg tapos ng college pero mind you, may ari ng 5 to 10 large fishing vessels hindi yung bangka.... asawa nya ngayon nurse... pero yung parents ng nurse, nurse sa U.S...

Siguro pag di edukado at di madiskarte sa buhay very limited choices nila..


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Wala akong paki kahit bilyonaryo pa at may 10 yacht.

Not every woman is attracted to money. I am attracted to a guy's education and character (breeding and values). I would rather choose an Atenean working in a bank and driving an Altis than an undergrad driving a Ferrari na yumaman lang sa "diskarte" pero magaspang naman ugali (ang dami nyan sa youtube puro kabastusan at bad influence) tapos "binoy" magsalita at puro mura

[shadow]

Diba uso naman sa abroad yun house husband? Dahil kung mas malaki kita ng babae then walaag alaga ng mga anak. Yun lalake na lang mag alaga sa mga anak.


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[_Cathy_]

That is our colonial mentality. "Why should i work hard when the fruits of my labor all goes to the haciendero?" So the sakada only works enough to pay tribute to his encomiendero and to feed himself. If he works more the encomiendero will just increase his tribute, leaving the same amount he had before. There is no incentive. Only when the filipino owns his business does he become industrious.

Jose Rizal may have actually been wrong when he said the filipino is not indolent. I think we were, on purpose.

Mahirap talaga pag ganyan mindset ng employee. My parents taught me by example yung malasakit. Isa pa, my output reflects on me kaya I don't like "pwede na" work. Kung palpak yan e di sabihin ng tao bobo ako or tamad LOL! If you deliver naman the minimum or as expected parang where's the passion?

Colonial mentality pala yan?

In my industry, in and around our province, I can proudly say that we give the highest wage to our employees. I think we are only one of the few who gives overtime pay and night differential pay. I always tell our employees that they can always ask our competitors’ employees about their wages, magkakakilala din kasi sila, and I know they are comparing notes.

But still, tatamad tamad pa rin, nagnanakaw pa rin.

I am talking of wages in the industry/line of business that we are in ha, not those multinationals and very big companies.

Meron din nyan sa Multinational, that is the reason why my pasabay buddy and I had conflict, we are super good friends but I don't like that he comes in late and he still files for OT. Alam ko hindi niya ko boss pero pinagsabihan ko siya dyan and he still does it. Tapos office hours busy sa ibang business niya. Wala na ko magawa basta I said my piece. ANg problema management caught on and he was managed out. Mag print ba naman ng maraming docs sa sideline niya e yung head ng department nakita HAHAHA

Bakit winner ang non-doctor na nakapangasawa ng doctor?

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Kasi doctors are on top of the dating attractiveness hierarchy, and I think that is universal

and tama din men are attracted to physical -- boobs, hips, butt coz indicators of fertility (it's instinctive, subconscious)

lights skin too because you are able to see agad sickness, a pink hue indicates health. Kaya universally white skin is considered attractive. Alam ko yung sasabihan na mga puti gusto ng Tan but not black skin. If we go by science, white skin talaga ang attractive sa biology.

[_Cathy_]

Diba uso naman sa abroad yun house husband? Dahil kung mas malaki kita ng babae then walaag alaga ng mga anak. Yun lalake na lang mag alaga sa mga anak.


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Alam ko lang na ganyan sa mga pinay na nurse, pero sa HQ namin, more than 70% siguro are male. I worked in HQ for a few months, 3 lang kami babae sa area and I once took a picture of people coming in at work, it's a sea of males in suits. So much testosterone!

[dr. d]

Diba uso naman sa abroad yun house husband? Dahil kung mas malaki kita ng babae then walaag alaga ng mga anak. Yun lalake na lang mag alaga sa mga anak.


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honga.
my classmate in trumpland...
"why?"
"we figger, it's advantageous to us, IRS-wise and family-household-wise. walang kasambahay o yaya dito, dr. d. besides, he cooks great."
i did not push anymore...

[shadow]

Alam ko lang na ganyan sa mga pinay na nurse, pero where sa HQ namin, more than 70% siguro are male. I worked in HQ for a few months, 3 lang kami babae sa area and I once took a picture of people coming in at work, it's a sea of males in suits. So much testosterone!

Kahit sa mga puti.


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[jut703]

Kasi doctors are on top of the dating attractiveness hierarchy, and I think that is universal

Hmm siguro kung consultant na, pwede. But if you're dating an intern/resident/fellow - you're up for a lot of sacrifices.

Sure ganda pakinggan, "I'm dating a doctor". But if you're dating a 20s/early 30s doctor then chances are walang pera, walang oras, laging pagod, work is life, palamunin pa ng magulang.

Yung mga iniidolize mo na doctor and yung mga doctor na pinapakita sa TV puro mga consultant na yan. Tapos na yung hardest part of medical training. Kaya rare ang doctor na maaga mag-asawa.

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