How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

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oo kung ako ung lalake i'd run away

di pa syota clingy na

Hinde pa nililigawan feeling asawa na.


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[Walter]

Basic Instinct ... every man's nightmare ...

[_Cathy_]

Weird yung lalaki actually, kapag ako sinabihan ng babe tapos about anak na di pa nagkikita.. Ako magsi-seen zone dyan..
Hindi pa nagkikita ganyan mga binibitawan na salita.. Jerk yan.. Medyo off ako sa ganyan.. Ang sick!! Sinasabi mo yan sa total stranger?
Kapag may bago nga na kakilala, kahit ilang beses na kayo nagkasama. Hindi mo pa din basta-basta masabi kung close friends na kayo.. tapos sa stranger na di mo pa nakikita in person, babe agad, anak agad.. Hehehe [emoji16]
Excuse lang baka may ma-offend ako sa mga makakabasa, iba-iba lang siguro tayo.. Baka sa iba, normal na ligawan yung ganyan..

I told my friend definitely may issue yung guy kasi 40 yrs old na and only had 2 or 3 GFs ata and his first GF mid 20s na and NONE lasted more than a year. Mas common sa babae ang older na single keysa mga lalaki. Wala naman glaring flaw yung lalaki para hindi makapag asawa. Stable siya at may hitsura naman (hindi maliit or mataba)

re sa pag aasawa na joke, di ko alam if he knows na goal ng friend ko magka asawa at anak kaya pinapa fall niya? Pero twice lang naman ata nagjoke about dun sa anak pero dun nga lalo na fall friend ko e haha. Napapaisip tuloy ako kung jerk nga ba talaga yung guy.

Another thing pala, the other week she told me na invite kaya niya sa bahay nila yung guy. I shouted NOOOOoooo! Hindi ko alam kung ako tama magpayo but I will never do that. I've had my share of guys show up at my house. My home is my sanctuary kaya konting konti lang may alam ng bahay ko outside of friends that I have known for decades. Sa office nga kahit village ko di ko sinasabi. Sample ng psychos. I've had someone trick my second Mom into revealing our number and street. May 2 naman alam lang yung street tapos nag scan ng street e yung cars namin kita sa garage. May isa naman psycho yung sumunod na GF and was threatening na sugurin ako sa bahay! Dami pang instances kaya I was shocked sa inisip niya. Imagine, first meet up ng lalaki na nakilala niya online sa bahay niya?!??

Tigilan na nya yung guy. Bottomline, he's not interested. Maybe just keeping her in the background just in case.

Sabi mo she enlisted sa dating app. So bakit eto lang ang hinahabol nya? She should try to match herself with other members. Mag-like din siya ng marami just in case may mag-match. Pag di pasado - next. Ganundin pag di interesado yung other party - move on.

That guy is the only guy that gave her attention. Honestly, yung attention that the guy gave him, that is not even attention for me, I would NOT be interested in a guy that messages me a few times a day. Nakaka awa din yung friend ko kasi her ex neglected her so much that any sort of attention e masaya na siya

I don't know why it's hard for her to engage or keep men interested online. Sakin mas madali yun kasi walang awkwardness unlike in person na mas marami things to watch out for like how you look or move etc. I dated guys in my youth na nauna pakilala muna sa phone ng common friend bago mag meet, yung mga nakakausap ko ng hours for several weeks yun lang ang i meet ko

May isa nakakausap niya a few times a month e conspiracy theorist naman (covid is a hoax WTF) May isa naman hindi okay ang religion. Yung Atenean ang pinaka normal

if nalaman ko may ganitong storyline nabubuo I'd automatically withdraw from any relationship. hahaha najudge agad

I don't get it?

Mas weird yun babae. Kaya nawalan ng interest siguro yun lalake, na weirduhan doon sa babae.

Ito yun mga papatayin ka habang natutulog ka or lagyan lason pagkain mo. Good for the guy he didn't fell into the trap.

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Paano naging weird yung friend ko? Wala ngang ka demand demand. Kung ako nakilala nung ATenean na yun, he wouldn't last a few days with me sa crumbs of attention that she gives my friend. Such a lame excuse na busy sa work saka why isn't he adding her on FB diba? Saka yung guy na yun ang swerte sa friend ko. Believe me, any girl na magustuhan ko is a saint hahaha! She reminds me of UF na napaka nurturing. Para siya si UF like si UF pag hindi in place ang damit ko aayusin (fashion industry si UF so baka factor na rin) Si Paulinian friend ko ganun din kasi alam niya si manyak officemate ko manyak nga. Swerte asawa ngayon ni UF alagang alaga, does that Atenean know what he is missing?

Hinde pa nililigawan feeling asawa na.

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Paano naman naging feeling asawa? Ang sabi ko lang tigilan na niya yung mga trivial na text na one or two sentences lang like "have a good day" "happy friday" "good morning" AKo kasi kung mag initiate ako may tanong talaga ako or may gusto talaga ako sabihin

Basic Instinct ... every man's nightmare ...

huh pano naging basic instinct e my friend is so wholesome, which could also be a downside

[uls]

Another thing pala, the other week she told me na invite kaya niya sa bahay nila yung guy

di nga niya mapa-meet ung guy sa labas like starbucks... papuntahin niya sa bahay?

I shouted NOOOOoooo!

you're both assuming pupunta ung guy

from how i see it di nga interesado ung guy makipag meet sa friend mo

what more pupunta sa bahay

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di nga niya mapa-meet ung guy sa labas like starbucks... papuntahin niya sa bahay?




you're both assuming pumunta ung guy

from how i see it di nga interesado ung guy makipag meet sa friend mo

what more pupunta sa bahay

Papakilala na sa parents nun babae BWAHAHAHAHAHA

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[_Cathy_]

di nga niya mapa-meet ung guy sa labas like starbucks... papuntahin niya sa bahay?

Kaya napasigaw ako when she told me that hahaha! Napaka naive for her to invite a stranger to her home. She is so inlove na 100% na agad tiwala niya. Kahit hindi psycho, for me it signals to the guy that she is too open, walang ka challenge challenge

you're both assuming pumunta ung guy

from how i see it di nga interesado ung guy makipag meet sa friend mo

what more pupunta sa bahay

Sakin more on warning na wag na siya mag invite ng lalaki she met online sa bahay niya. Nakinig naman sakin na wag i invite.

Yun pala uls tungkol sa "walang landi", malaki nga boobs niya e medyo manang naman magdamit. Nag joke pala yung guy kasi she said something like matigas ulo ng mga tao sa bahay nila then the guy said sa bahay din daw niya may titigas mamayang gabi. Then she replied na he is making her uncomfortable LOL. I will NOT respond that way to a guy that I am "in love" with and want to get me pregnant, pero the signal she is giving the guy e hindi siya s3xual, though hindi nga naman pa siya nililigawan. Shocked talaga ako na for someone as conservative as her e wala na daw siya paki maging dalagang ina basta gusto niya magka anak kay Atenean

Papakilala na sa parents nun babae BWAHAHAHAHAHA

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well, her whole family does know the guy by name hahaha

[uls]

Kaya napasigaw ako when she told me that hahaha! Napaka naive for her invite a stranger to her home. She is so inlove na 100% na agad tiwala niya. Kahit hindi psycho, for me it signals to the guy that she is too open, walang ka challenge challenge

for me hindi issue ung gusto niya papuntahin ang total stranger sa bahay niya

matinong lalake naman ung guy so walang danger diyan

for me it's more on assuming masyado ung friend mo na interesado sa kanya ung guy

feeling niya the guy will accept her invite

[uls]

Papakilala na sa parents nun babae BWAHAHAHAHAHA

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ung starry eyed na babae may nameet lang lalake online di pa nga nagkikita feeling niya nahanap na niya ang the one kinuwento na sa buong bahay

gusto na ipakilala sa buong pamilya

pero ung guy naghahanap pa ng iba sa tinder

[_Cathy_]

for me hindi issue ung gusto niya papuntahin ang total stranger sa bahay niya

matinong lalake naman ung guy so walang danger diyan

for me it's more on assuming masyado ung friend mo na interesado sa kanya ung guy

feeling niya the guy will accept her invite

abnormal talaga ako kasi kahit matino ang guy hindi ko ini invite sa bahay, dapat matagal ko na kilala at nakakasama muna

Kaya I posted here kasi mahirap na ako gawin gauge sa attention/interest kasi alam mo naman ako, dapat all day and night may communication LOL Kaya hindi ko rin masabi kung normal ba yung amount of communication nila ng guy and he could be interested sa chatting a few times a day.

Eto yung huling pangyayari, she was complaining to me na pabawas na ng pabawas yung messaging nila

Sunday: Last text siya when she said something like good night
Monday: She greeted good morning and he did not reply - I told her do NOT initiate na BUT hindi nakatiis
Friday: She messaged him again nangangamusta and he replied "babe zombie" then she asked what are his plans for mothers day and he replied hapon na ata. Tapos 2 exchange ata tapos last message na naman siya LOL
Sunday: He initiated Happy Mother's day sa Mom niya 9 am ata, then she replied tapos ang reply 5 pm na then she asked ata ano ginawa niya ng MOther's day, seen zone na siya

Until today wala ng reply. Dios mio, kung ginanyan ako na treatment ni crush when I tried to win him back, wala pang 1 month na get over ko na siya hahaha

ung starry eyed na babae may nameet lang lalake online di pa nga nagkikita feeling niya nahanap na niya ang the one kinuwento na sa buong bahay

gusto na ipakilala sa buong pamilya

pero ung guy naghahanap pa ng iba sa tinder

I told her that, na malamang may iba din kausap si Atenean. She does want to win him over, pero mukhang tagilid na

[uls]

the guy already got the impression wala siya mapapala sa friend mo

kahit mag tumbling pa ung friend mo ngayon malabo na yan