How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[viper888]

I don't think she has no morals just because she does not mind getting pregnant out of wedlock. She is one of the kindest people that I know (kaya nga friend ko siya) She assumes that the guy will marry her if she gets pregnant, but when I asked her what if he does not, okay lang din daw. Personally, I will never willingly make myself a single Mom because I cannot afford it and I want my child to grow up with married parents. She badly wants a child na kasi late 30s with PCOS siya, she rejected a job offer that gave her asking salary kasi graveyard shift e baka di daw siya mabuntis hehe, I agree naman kasi all her life 9 to 6 job siya and too old for graveyard

Anyway, she told me the guy comes from very humble beginnings, matalino kaya scholar sa Ateneo all throughout and he was able to get out of poverty. Medyo nakakatawa nga kwento niya sa mga proof na humble beginnings talaga. I'd say mas mabait pa siya kay UF, kasi si UF particular sa background, siya hindi. So hindi rin naman after money or stability yung friend ko kasi mas nakaka angat pamilya nila. Bihira nga babae katulad niya na hindi materialistic

She should probably try to meet the guy first - she should find an excuse to invite him to something, more difficult in the middle of a pandemic though

But convince her against immediate baby-making


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[_Cathy_]

She should probably try to meet the guy first - she should find an excuse to invite him to something, more difficult in the middle of a pandemic though

But convince her against immediate baby-making

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The guy is not asking to meet up with her e. She is so into him na talaga and sees a family with him

[_Cathy_]

Need input please. I am not sure if I am causing more harm than good to my friend's love life. I don't think I am the best person to give her advise because we have opposite personalities. Sa relationships she gives her all, while I am very reserved. She knows the guys I dated and likes how in my relationships (romance and friends) I get so much attention. Hindi ko naman alam paano sagutin tanong niya na how she will get the same kind of attention?

Nagulat nga siya na one of the reasons why I fell out of love on crush kasi I felt like minimum 1 hr of talk time a day means he is not interested in me na and I don't wanna be with a man naman na hindi into me. Siya kasi more than happy na daw siya with one hour a day, with her ex BF of 10 yrs they rarely talk, text or meet up. WTF. He rarely gives her gifts or takes her out on dates so swerte ng BF kasi parang walang saving grace?

So this app guy, they started chatting 1st week of March, he called her thrice pa lang and they only exchange messages daily BUT starting last week very minimal na yung messages at yung guy ang iksi ng message at siya ang haba. Anyway she showed me the exchange at eto payo ko. I told her do NOT initiate messaging the guy, sa relationships ko RARE na mauna ako unless may kasalanan ako or it's business. I also told her stop with the "Have a great day" "Eat lunch na" etc etc OMG I told her to let the guy initiate and show interest at wag niya pakita na dead na dead siya e hindi pa nga nanliligaw, give him challenge naman BUT when he does message e show him a good time

Last week the guy seen zoned her and I told her I will NEVER initiate a message pag ako na seen zone. Aba 4 days pa lang hindi nakatiis at nag initiate ng message kaya I told her straightout she has low EQ hahaha So yesterday nag initiate naman ng Happy Mother's day to her Mom yung buy tapos yung reply inaabot ng 1 hour. In one day 4 na exchange of message. WTF, personally I would not accept crumbs of time from a guy.

Men made new religion, abdicated thrones, started wars for the women they want. I experienced with different men, kahit meeting nakaka ninja text yan, with the guys I dated sobrang dami instances proving na ang lalaki pag gusto may paraan, kung ayaw may dahilan. I keep on telling my friend na kaya siya neglected kasi she allows it? Sakin kasi reading their exchange, by my standards hindi na interested yung guy e, pero I dunno kung normal ba yun? 3 calls in 2 months? Never asked to meet? 3 or 4 exchange of message in a day, minsan wala pa?

[misseksaherada]

Need input please. I am not sure if I am causing more harm than good to my friend's love life. I don't think I am the best person to give her advise because we have opposite personalities. Sa relationships she gives her all, while I am very reserved. She knows the guys I dated and likes how in my relationships (romance and friends) I get so much attention. Hindi ko naman alam paano sagutin tanong niya na how she will get the same kind of attention?

Nagulat nga siya na one of the reasons why I fell out of love on crush kasi I felt like minimum 1 hr of talk time a day means he is not interested in me na and I don't wanna be with a man naman na hindi into me. Siya kasi more than happy na daw siya with one hour a day, with her ex BF of 10 yrs they rarely talk, text or meet up. WTF. He rarely gives her gifts or takes her out on dates so swerte ng BF kasi parang walang saving grace?

So this app guy, they started chatting 1st week of March, he called her thrice pa lang and they only exchange messages daily BUT starting last week very minimal na yung messages at yung guy ang iksi ng message at siya ang haba. Anyway she showed me the exchange at eto payo ko. I told her do NOT initiate messaging the guy, sa relationships ko RARE na mauna ako unless may kasalanan ako or it's business. I also told her stop with the "Have a great day" "Eat lunch na" etc etc OMG I told her to let the guy initiate and show interest at wag niya pakita na dead na dead siya e hindi pa nga nanliligaw, give him challenge naman BUT when he does message e show him a good time

Last week the guy seen zoned her and I told her I will NEVER initiate a message pag ako na seen zone. Aba 4 days pa lang hindi nakatiis at nag initiate ng message kaya I told her straightout she has low EQ hahaha So yesterday nag initiate naman ng Happy Mother's day to her Mom yung buy tapos yung reply inaabot ng 1 hour. In one day 4 na exchange of message. WTF, personally I would not accept crumbs of time from a guy.

Men made new religion, abdicated thrones, started wars for the women they want. I experienced with different men, kahit meeting nakaka ninja text yan, with the guys I dated sobrang dami instances proving na ang lalaki pag gusto may paraan, kung ayaw may dahilan. I keep on telling my friend na kaya siya neglected kasi she allows it? Sakin kasi reading their exchange, by my standards hindi na interested yung guy e, pero I dunno kung normal ba yun? 3 calls in 2 months? Never asked to meet? 3 or 4 exchange of message in a day, minsan wala pa?

Kung gusto nya talaga ang guy Ms. Cathy... kahit anong payo pa dyan gugustuhin nya pa rin yan.. Hehehe hindi natin control ang feelings natin..
Matatauhan din yan ng kusa, may kanya-kanya tayong limitation.. Mahirap na masaya yang pinagdadaanan nya.. Buti pa sya may love life ngayong pandemic.. Hahahahahaha [emoji23]
Sundin lang ang tinitibok ng puso para wala syang "what ifs"..