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  1. Join Date
    Oct 2004
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    #21
    Just fap it off.



    :fly:

  2. Join Date
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    #22
    there's nothing to think about, you're married, she's married, kahit na anong problema pa niya meron siya sa marriage niya hinde reason yun for to be together...., before ka maawa sa kanya dahil sa problema niya sa asawa niya maawa ka muna sa asawa, you said that womanizer and husband niya, then if you go on to have a relationship with her, your no difference to her husband...

    kahit anong pang sabihin mone you were forced to marry your wife the fact remains na kasal ka pa rin sa kanya....

    I think you need see a marriage counselor....

  3. Join Date
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    #23
    Bro, i think you need first to fix your relationship with your wife. Tama si wavecxs Love is a decision. Everyday you need to decide to love your wife and kids. At times you don't feel inlove w/ your wife and that's normal pero if you decide to love her no matter what gagawa ka ng paraan para ma inlove ka uli. Tell to your friend to do the same.

  4. Join Date
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    #24
    to thre3adstarter: how old are you? based on your post parang kang highschool na kinikilig sa mga text and emails niya nagtatanong kana meron bang meaning ang mga one liner niya? , for pete's sake grow up!!!

  5. Join Date
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    #25
    Quote Originally Posted by resmile View Post
    IMO, the story is one-sided. Well, you have mentioned everything about you and the girl, but you failed to mention about your WIFE and your kids. You are talking about your future. How about theirs? You failed to mention the AFTERLIFE of the other people involved in the story. Please consider that their (your family) involvement in this story is a result of your decision before you got married.
    Well said.

    To real_life, I hope you came here looking for honest, candid advice and not to seek rationalizations for what you are tempted to do.

    Good luck.

  6. Join Date
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    #26
    Quote Originally Posted by valskie01 View Post
    Bro, i think you need first to fix your relationship with your wife. Tama si wavecxs Love is a decision. Everyday you need to decide to love your wife and kids. At times you don't feel inlove w/ your wife and that's normal pero if you decide to love her no matter what gagawa ka ng paraan para ma inlove ka uli. Tell to your friend to do the same.
    Pasok na pasok to. Love is a decision, many people think its an emotion. Karamihan ng desisyon na emosyon ang ginamit sablay..think about it.

  7. Join Date
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    #27
    If you're having a dilemma, so will your wife and kids. Remember, once you get married, "you" always includes you and your wife, and any children you have. That's why it's a union. So if you have a dilemma, remember this, your wife and kids will, too.

    Move on and realize what you have.

  8. Join Date
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    #28
    We often empathize (or sympathize) with people with these kinds of problems but surely, it will not make things better for all those around them. You can go all the way but the consequences will be messy such that the effects will continue to haunt you all through your life.

    It's not called temptation for nothing. Secrets cannot always be hidden. Eto na lang isipin mo. Watch the movie 'Unfaithful' and you will see the consequences. It's not bad to love. The timing may not always be right.

  9. Join Date
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    #29
    Quote Originally Posted by mazdamazda View Post
    Hindi na pinagiisipan yan.

    You are already married. Be a man and stick with your wife.
    Amen! you cant solve a problem by creating another

  10. FrankDrebin Guest
    #30
    Quote Originally Posted by shadow View Post
    to thre3adstarter: how old are you? based on your post parang kang highschool na kinikilig sa mga text and emails niya nagtatanong kana meron bang meaning ang mga one liner niya? , for pete's sake grow up!!!
    Ganun talaga Bossing Shadow kapag in-love ang isang tao. Kinikilig sa simpleng bagay. Hehehe. :D

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